My partner and I have been together for almost 3 years now, and pretty much the entire time we've been together, he has masturbated EVERY night, sometimes even in his sleep. He does it after we've had sex too. Lately I've noticed a random sock just laying on the floor, as I was cleaning up our room this morning, I picked up said sock, and found it COVERED, inside and out, in semen. EVERY night, I am kept awake, for hours on end, while he lays there, RIGHT NEXT TO ME, and masturbates. I try to initiate sex, only to be told he's "trying to sleep" or he's "just adjusting himself". When I try to talk to him about it, he flat out denies everything, and says I'm being paranoid, or makes excuses like "It's natural, stop being a b***h about it", though when I try to talk to him I am literally just laying my feelings on the line, and almost begging for him to talk to me about why he 'needs' to do it every night. Some nights he stays up until 2am, masturbating to girls on the internet, then comes to bed and does it some more. Sometimes he'll try to have sex with me after he's been masturbating to girls on the internet, but he rarely finishes, he just tries to fake it, pushes me off in a hurry, mumbling about needing a drink, and goes and masturbates in the bathroom instead. He tells me he loves me, he thinks I'm sexy, etc. but when he does things like this, it really is hard to believe him. I wouldn't mind him doing it so much, if at least I knew WHY, but he won't talk to me about it. I'm 21 years old, and my partner is 31 years old. We talked about the age difference before we got together, so I know that isn't an issue for him. I've had a daughter with him, and thought perhaps it has something to do with that, maybe he doesn't see me as being as attractive as I was when he met me, but physically I haven't changed. I'm a little over 5ft tall, and weigh 46kg, so I'm not a BIG woman. I have no idea what his reason might be, but I'm hoping it's nothing to do with me. Any helpful hints or suggestions?
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I had an ex whose ex-wife did the same. And even throughout the night like you mentioned. He found out that she was severely sexually abused as a child and had been doing this most her life. She wasn't even aware or conscience when she was doing it at night, at times rolling over him. I don't know if this applies to you or if perhaps your mate is addicted to pornography so pleasuring himself has become so habitual to him that it's more satisfying.
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