my girlfriend and i just started having sex. she doesn't seem to enjoy slow steady sex i.e. making love, and tries very vigorously to orgasm when we are doing missionary and i start grinding her vulva. I'm not used to this and it pretty much turns me off. it is difficult for me to keep going when she starts moving so crazy. she has been a lesbian for 3 years, and i asked her if lesbian sex was orgasm-focussed and she said pretty much. i don't know how to talk to her about enjoying slow steady lovemaking in the missionary position until we speed up later and she reaches orgasm with less effort. i don't want to criticize her sexuality. hope this makes sense. just to make things clear of course i am happy for to climax, i am just thrown off when she puts forth such feverish effort when she feels stimulated. replies are SO appreciated!
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You will eventually get use to it. All you can do is to keep her happy, right? Try finding her G-spot and finger her or play with her clitoris while having sex. It doesn't hurt to do foreplay while having sex. I hope this helped!
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