Alright so I was fingering my girlfriend today and she wanted me to do it harder against the ball (aka i'm guessing hymen) in her vagina and so I did, when my hand started to hurt and I was getting tired. I decided to pull my hand out, me and her both were shocked when my hand was covered in blood (and I was only using two fingers). And the almost whole inner side of her right pant leg on her shorts was covered in blood as well. She doesn't start her period until next week. But i've heard it hurts women when the hymen is popped. But when I asked her if it hurt she couldn't remember. And the half ball I was messing with (once again guessing the hymen) it was a full half ball at first but then when she wanted it harder it had an indent. So does anyone have any advice what I should do or not do the next time I finger her. Or can someone fill me in so I can let her know what happened? Because if her mom saw we would have used the excuse she was on her period but then she said it was way to light compared to when she is on her period. So can anyone please help for next time?
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It does not necessarily hurt when the hymen is broken. Different girls experience different things.
But what struck me from the post... I don't have any knowledge about the hymen being ball shaped what so ever. When I think of "ball shaped" I think of the little clitoris and ... some part in the vagina. But not the hymen. It's just a flap of skin, is it not? I'm rusty on my hymen knowledge... uhhh.... but I'm pretty sure it's not ball shaped.
Her period could have been early. Just ask her if she bled days afterwards.
I have been with my girl, and after fingering her, have had a nice amount of blood covering my fingers. But you know, it happened after I did break her hymen. I heard somewhere that it doesn't actually "break" and whatnot. But as I said, I'm rusty on this subject.
So, it could be a broken hymen. Or it could be her period. Or you could have cut her (she honestly might have not felt that).
But what struck me from the post... I don't have any knowledge about the hymen being ball shaped what so ever. When I think of "ball shaped" I think of the little clitoris and ... some part in the vagina. But not the hymen. It's just a flap of skin, is it not? I'm rusty on my hymen knowledge... uhhh.... but I'm pretty sure it's not ball shaped.
Her period could have been early. Just ask her if she bled days afterwards.
I have been with my girl, and after fingering her, have had a nice amount of blood covering my fingers. But you know, it happened after I did break her hymen. I heard somewhere that it doesn't actually "break" and whatnot. But as I said, I'm rusty on this subject.
So, it could be a broken hymen. Or it could be her period. Or you could have cut her (she honestly might have not felt that).
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Yes I believe it was the clitoris. and yes I'm a bit rusty on the stuff too I didn't pay attention to that part in health to much :| But thank you because she does play lacrosse so it could have broke then. Because I saw her today and she isn't on her period yet. And she said after she went pee today that after words it stung still. So I guess I did tear her a bit and it needs time to heal. But thank you for your help :o
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Ah you're welcome. I'm just glad I could help at all.
And yeah, girls who are very physically active sometimes break their hymen during sports/etc.
Also, about the stinging, yeah that makes sense. Just make sure that the stinging does go away in a day or two. Otherwise it could possibly be an infection. Probably not but just be sure to check up on your lady.
Note: Be sure to wash your hands (or whatever) when you're going to touch her sexually. Infections aren't fun, and I've learned this the hard way. :'(
And yeah, girls who are very physically active sometimes break their hymen during sports/etc.
Also, about the stinging, yeah that makes sense. Just make sure that the stinging does go away in a day or two. Otherwise it could possibly be an infection. Probably not but just be sure to check up on your lady.
Note: Be sure to wash your hands (or whatever) when you're going to touch her sexually. Infections aren't fun, and I've learned this the hard way. :'(
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