I'm 18 and I'm with my boyfriend a year and a half and I can't enjoy sex at all.
He was my first and only fella that I went that far with but it's not him, it's me. I feel absolutely nothing, not a single pang of pleasure. When I'm fingered, licked or penetrated I feel nothing, I can feel him inside me but no pleasure. The odd time when I'm being fingered I feel abit of pleasure but other than that I feel nothing.
At first I thought he was too big and I'd eventually "adjust" but after a year and a half it's still the same.
I've been to my doctor once and he suggested I wasn't ready but I think I am. He suggested I stopped for a month and then try again but nothing changed, it was just very sore when we tried again the first time.
I feel horrible because I feel like I'm letting him down, in the beginning I had a "sex drive" but because of all this I just do it because he wants to. I want to feel how he feels, I want to feel SOMETHING!
I know there is other people like this, I've read it online, but I can't find answers on what to do about it. What's wrong with me and how can I fix it?
He was my first and only fella that I went that far with but it's not him, it's me. I feel absolutely nothing, not a single pang of pleasure. When I'm fingered, licked or penetrated I feel nothing, I can feel him inside me but no pleasure. The odd time when I'm being fingered I feel abit of pleasure but other than that I feel nothing.
At first I thought he was too big and I'd eventually "adjust" but after a year and a half it's still the same.
I've been to my doctor once and he suggested I wasn't ready but I think I am. He suggested I stopped for a month and then try again but nothing changed, it was just very sore when we tried again the first time.
I feel horrible because I feel like I'm letting him down, in the beginning I had a "sex drive" but because of all this I just do it because he wants to. I want to feel how he feels, I want to feel SOMETHING!
I know there is other people like this, I've read it online, but I can't find answers on what to do about it. What's wrong with me and how can I fix it?
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I think that, at the beginning, you really should try to relax. Sometimes, that is the key to successful sex. As I can see, you are not able to notice one of the erogenous zones for women in your case. That is why you should experiment. So, when you are lying in your bed, try to relax. Once you feel him inside you, try to rub your clitoris, or let him do it. Go slow and I am sure that very soon you will be able to feel some pleasure. Sometimes, it is harder to find a right zone in a lady, but it is not impossible.
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