Hi I’m 33 years old and I’ve only ever had sex with 2 people before the current guy I’m with and the last guy I was in a relationship with made me squirt which has never happened to me before and I felt embarrassed by it that when ever we use to have sex and he was giving me oral sex I use to push him off when I was about to climax and made sex really tense cos I couldn’t relax. Then I’d dry up and end up bleeding after sex. While now with the current guy I’m seeing we had sex for the first time last night but I haven’t told him I’ve only ever slept with 2 people before him and I was so scared of squirting and bleeding that I couldn’t relax when we were having sex and found that I wasn’t enjoy it and dried up really quickly which then made my vigiana burn why his f*****g me. What do I do?
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The first thing you need to do is just relax and enjoy yourself, most guys find its a real turn on if they can make a female actually ejaculate an not just orgasm as there are so few woman that can actually do it. Just because it happened with your first boyfriend doesn't automatically mean its going to happen with this guy as it takes a certain knack on his part for you to achieve it, if you find that you are getting dry because you can't relax then try a water based lubricant like my jelly or the Durex pleasure range of lubricants and if you do squirt don't be embarrassed about it just lay back and enjoy the pleasure because its supposed to be better than any normal orgasm ☺
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The main thing though is for you to relax and just enjoy the pleasure together ☺
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