I'm an 18 year old female and I can't reach orgasm from penetration. Sex nor masturbation using my fingers brings no pleasure whatsoever. The only way I can orgasm is by rubbing my clit through my underwear.
Has anyone else been in the same situation as me AND eventually overcome this? My boyfriend knows and is fine with it, but it's really starting to get me down. I hate that sex isn't pleasurable for me and I want more than anything for him to make me orgasm but he can't. :-(
I'm hoping that there's a way to overcome this. Does anyone have any tips for pleasurable penetration? It would REALLY help me a lot.
Has anyone else been in the same situation as me AND eventually overcome this? My boyfriend knows and is fine with it, but it's really starting to get me down. I hate that sex isn't pleasurable for me and I want more than anything for him to make me orgasm but he can't. :-(
I'm hoping that there's a way to overcome this. Does anyone have any tips for pleasurable penetration? It would REALLY help me a lot.
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Most women do not climax from penetration alone.
In fact, most women orgasm from clit stimulation... but it can be done by themselves, by a partner, or in conjunction with penetration.
I would suggest waiting longer in foreplay before moving forward with anything else....
In fact, most women orgasm from clit stimulation... but it can be done by themselves, by a partner, or in conjunction with penetration.
I would suggest waiting longer in foreplay before moving forward with anything else....
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I think that she is not relaxed at all when she is about to have an intercourse. When a lady is not a relaxed, her boyfriend can't do a lot about it. He can try to find a erogenous zones for women, but if you are tense, it won't help. I suggest to everyone who has problems with it that he or she should try to find the best relaxation technique. Sometimes, for me, that was a glass of good wine. I needed to take it to feel better. And it helped me. But you need to have a control in this as well. Good luck!
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hi!
i guess u shud try 2 change ur partner fr once. maybe sm othr guy cn mak u hit d orgasm!
i guess u shud try 2 change ur partner fr once. maybe sm othr guy cn mak u hit d orgasm!
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hey, I had the same thing, im bi, and I had to do masturbation for 3-4 days none stop because it got annoying. but now ive been sexually arouse from this sexual stuff, have you tried watching porn?, and just start rubbing your clitoris with no underwear on and just keep doing that until you get a feeling.. I hope this helps :)
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Try going on top. If you sit up straight and 'bounce' on his penis at the same time stimulate your clitoris. You may have to rub hard. Do it in circular motions. Ask your boyfriend to push up as you come down. If you adopt the 'missionary' position you can ask your boy friend to rub your pubis with his as he thrusts. This stimulates your clitoris.
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