Hi, This issue has been bothering me for a while. Basically, I masturbate a lot and can reach very good clitoral orgasm easily and by a variety of ways. My boyfriend is really good at sex, and takes time to pleasure me. However, as soon as he starts rubbing my clit, or fingering me, I feel very little pleasure. And the thing is, i cant say its his fault - he asks me whats best, and I tell him to replicate the techniques when I masturbate, to press harder or lighter or faster etc. He does everything right. Yet, after about a minute of him doing this I feel nothing pleasurable, just the motion of his hands and slight stimulation.  This makes me feel horrible, and I end up faking my orgasms every time as I cant tell him what exactly to do and then just sit there with a grumpy look on my face !!!!  I'm starting to think this  is a mental stress issue... perhaps theres something stopping me from feeling pleasure... the reason is sometimes I masturbate and try to imagine its his hands and the orgasm thats been building immediately goes away. It doesnt make sense as I feel very affectionate towards him, very attracted to him etc, nothing wrong there surely?! P.s. I have only had one sex partner before him, and I did not feel a lot of pleasure there too :( Thanks