Hi, i am not a virgin but for a while now i experience very light bleeding after sex and after being fingered. i have been tested like three times in the past six months after only having one partner because i'm always paranoid and they have all came up negative. I have a hard time getting wet and when im not wet it can be slightly painful if he is touching me when im dry, and my boyfriend is often a little too rough when he is fingering me and i think he may have cut me with his nals. I am very small and have been told i'm really tight (haha) so i'm thinking that it could possibly be me being tight or not being wet enough?since my std tests have came up negative. please help :-) Oh yeah, and is there any special techniques to make me wetter without using any of that lube or ky jelly stuff? haha