I was told I probably could not have children and the man I had sex with said he had a vas.  I am 48, am bloated all the time, my belly seems to get larger everyday and I have missed my period for several months but spot from time to time .. I took a pregnancy test and it was negative.  I am of menopause age, so can it be just menopause symptons.  I thought maybe I was allergic to gluten but that doesn't seem to be the case.  Can some one please advise?