I'm 17. I've lost my virginity 3 months ago. We just couldn't got things right, I've had A LOT of pain, had a "pool of blood" and continued bleeding for 3 days. After a week, I've noticed something unusual in my vagina. It's a tissue (not a bump, swollen skin etc. EXACTLY A TISSUE) coming out from the inside, connected to vaginal walls near the entrance. I had to show it to my girl friends, they've agreed that they don't have this kind of thing, so I am alarmed since then. When I try to insert a tampon or my finger(s) it's almost impossible unless I hold it while I'm inserting those. And even if I pull it, it can slip out of my fingers and block the way again. When I pull it (it can be done easily) I don't feel anything on that tissue. I can twist it, as always pull it but it's just numb. Me and my partner have used a condom and it was his first too, so I don't think it's something because of an infection. (Maybe this sentence is dumb I don't even know) I'm pretty sure it's something that has to do with my hymen... I am going to see a gynecologist in a week (I mean, finally), but I am just too scared: what if they say they have to cut it? (they would have to talk to my parents about it) and even though my mother knows I'm not a virgin, my life will end if this happens. At least I wanna prepare myself. So if you had anything like this, or have any idea about what's going on, please, please help me!