Protected sex, condom did not break, no period for 39 days, having PMS symptoms, 2 negative tests

I'm having the same problem, I'm 19 had protected sex with boyfriend of 4years with a condom, it never ripped or anything. My period is 5 days late now. What are the chances? Help.

Lolita3215: the same thing happened to me except my period was just about over when we had sex and then it bled after we did?

Hi guys! I am exactly in the same boat at the moment with my boyfriend and I'm 16. There's no reason to feel shame because one day or another every one will do it ! But you must make sure you use protection, which many of you said you have. If you have taken pregnancy tests and it's come out negative.. Simple your not pregnant .. But it's best to do one every few days because there's always that 1% chance the test could be wrong. Some times according to your diet, exercise and hormones periods change which happens to me a lot. I've been fairly regular however my periods decided not to come recently ! ( and I have sex every few weeks) it's just our body, and don't forget it varies for every one. If you have been getting discharge your most Likley to get it soon and our vagina cleans it's self out. If you know the condom Didnt break /fall of or tear you will be fine.. And he pulled out which is even better. Birth control pills may be an option you may want to Think about however you need to be 17+ to buy them. Side affects arnt the best as they can make you have your period non stop for weeks , bad mood swings and cramps. There's always the chance of them not been successful either because you have to start taking them 70 hours (around 3 days after sex) for them to work effectively. In my opinion I think your fine, nothing to worry about at this point but please do buy some pregnancy tests! Hope all works out and this is helpful to you all :D good luck!

I got my period late august & right after ran out of birth control & haven't been on it since. I had protected sex 3 times but still haven't go my period & it is about to be October . I normally have irregular periods without birth control but I want to make sure I am not prego since I have menstrual cramps but with no blood. Please help !

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Hi so im 17, and my boyfriend and i had protected sex 42 days ago the day right after my last period, it was both our firsts. We've had sex three more times since then too, all using a condom. i marked the day i had my period on one of thoses period apps, and that was the first time i actually marked it. Sept 13 was theday my period ended and sept 15 was the actually day we had sex. It said on the calendar that my period was suppose to come on Oct. 5 th .. its Oct. 27th.. last night my boyfriend fingered me hoping that would help start my period! i did start bleeding after i had orgasmed. i thought that made it start so i put a tampod in right after. I took it out an hour later and there was only a little blood on it and i had stopped bleeding. i was stressed in beginning of october, but after the first week i just for got about it, so ive been super calm. every once in awhile like maybe once every 3 days i get this sharp cramp but it doesnt last that long. oh and after he fingered me and i put my tampond in, it hurt, like as if i actually started, but i didnt...should i be worried? what should i do?

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Hi so im 17, and my boyfriend and i had protected sex 42 days ago the day right after my last period, it was both our firsts. We've had sex three more times since then too, all using a condom. i marked the day i had my period on one of thoses period apps, and that was the first time i actually marked it. Sept 13 was theday my period ended and sept 15 was the actually day we had sex. It said on the calendar that my period was suppose to come on Oct. 5 th .. its Oct. 27th.. last night my boyfriend fingered me hoping that would help start my period! i did start bleeding after i had orgasmed. i thought that made it start so i put a tampod in right after. I took it out an hour later and there was only a little blood on it and i had stopped bleeding. i was stressed in beginning of october, but after the first week i just for got about it, so ive been super calm. every once in awhile like maybe once every 3 days i get this sharp cramp but it doesnt last that long. oh and after he fingered me and i put my tampond in, it hurt, like as if i actually started, but i didnt...should i be worried? what should i do?

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Hi so im 17, and my boyfriend and i had protected sex 42 days ago the day right after my last period, it was both our firsts. We've had sex three more times since then too, all using a condom. i marked the day i had my period on one of thoses period apps, and that was the first time i actually marked it. Sept 13 was theday my period ended and sept 15 was the actually day we had sex. It said on the calendar that my period was suppose to come on Oct. 5 th .. its Oct. 27th.. last night my boyfriend fingered me hoping that would help start my period! i did start bleeding after i had orgasmed. i thought that made it start so i put a tampod in right after. I took it out an hour later and there was only a little blood on it and i had stopped bleeding. i was stressed in beginning of october, but after the first week i just for got about it, so ive been super calm. every once in awhile like maybe once every 3 days i get this sharp cramp but it doesnt last that long. oh and after he fingered me and i put my tampond in, it hurt, like as if i actually started, but i didnt...should i be worried? what should i do??

I am going through the same thing and I'm scared to death! I'm 16 and had sex with my boyfriend. Protected with condom. Condom did not break or come off. It was my first time as well. I was supposed to start my period October 27, it's the 30th now. I've had a slight cramp here and there. I have mood swings and headaches. We had sex on October 19. I'm freaking out that I'm pregnant and I REALLY DONT WANT TO BE.

Hi, I was on birth control for over a year and I had gotten off of it the end of October because I couldn't afford to pay for it anymore. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over five years. And I am a little over a week late. We've had only protected sex since being on and getting off birth control and ejaculation never took place inside of me. I am really convinced that I am not preganant because I took all nescessay precautions. I haven't felt any type of symtoms of preganancy or menstrual symptoms. And this past November, I started working a little more, with school on top of it, and I've been eating a less. I bought a pregnancy test already but I am so hesitant to take it. What could it possibly be?  

I've had kind of the same thing and I'm scared to death. I'm 19 and me and my boyfriend had sex on dec 31 and I didn't have a period that month because I was so stressed out about school and work and stuff and that's normal for me but we had sex on the 31 and used a condom, and it didn't tear or break or anything, and I took plan B the next day, I got a period on the 4th and I bled for like 4 or 5 days pretty heavy and I had some spotting like 2 weeks ago but idk when I'm supposed to get my period because of taking plan b so idk if I've missed it or not and I've taken 8 tests all negative but I'm still insanely terrified and stressed more than I ever have been in my life because my boobs hurt more than they normally do before my period. HELP PLEASE IM FREAKING OUT SO BADLY

Ok I see that you posted this a year ago but I'm needing help now ! I'm 18 years old and have been having irregular periods since I've started them about 2 years ago. I have a boyfriend on a year now and we have sex, but it's always protected. I've not had a period for about 8 weeks now but have had protected sex between this 8 weeks. I've not been having any pregnancy symptoms, no sickness, no cramps, no tender Breasts, no sour heads. Does anyone know if this is normal or if I should be worried?

Just go get a preg test to reassure! My first preg scare was when I was 18 as well. I was so scared because I actually got symptoms. My friend (who always did pull out) kept telling me not to freak out cuz she's not even pregnant. But, I still kept freaking out thinking that I may be one of those extra fertile types. Nothing stopped me from worrying until getting a preg test. Even a period (especially because it was super light). After that in college, many friends also talked to me bout preg scares. It's always the same: can't calm down until the negative signs. I'm on this site because I'm scared too again haha. I am now 21. I am planning to take a preg test but it's too early because it hasn't been two weeks since the last time. I'm scared this time because I haven't had light bleeding 10 days after. I also did two days after but I'm pretty sure that was just cuz i hadn't done it in such a long time lol.

I'm had protected sex with my boyfriend with condoms and they didn't break. My period is almost 3 weeks late. I have taken 4 pregnancy tests and all negative. Could I be pregnant?

I was experiencing the same thing on  december. I  had sexual intercourse like a week before my period and i was like 10-12 days late on my period. It could be a lot of things: diet, you probably ovulated later or twice, freaking hormones, stress, and of course pregnancy. It depends on every body aswell; if your pregnancy test turns negative, it is possible you took it too early, if not, then you could try a blood test. If you are more than 15 days late on your period, youd could go with your gin. 

Also, when you get pregnant, you feel it, you always feel it.

Hi I've had sex with with my bf Anyway I lost it to him in April and didn't have my period Its Now end ish or may and still no period the condom slipped a bit but I Dont know if I'm pregnent or not as at the local pharmacy you have to be 16 to get condoms preg tests etc and I can't wait till october to then turn 16 to get them and my bf is flipping out and won't talk to me what do I do???