I am a healthy, 39 year old male. I love my girlfriend, she is quite attractive, and we may engage in sex anywhere from 2-4 times a week. Occasionally, early in the day, an erotic thought or idea may cross my mind. Enough to get a partial erection. Well it seems from there on through the rest of the day I will leak. Sometimes a lot. Meanwhile, by the time I get to have fun with her, my erection feels weak and the intensity I had hoped for isn't there. Sometimes I don't have an orgasm. If I do, not much is ejaculated and it's not really a strong orgasm. I know the problem starts with that first thought of sex, but I love sex. I'm not going to stop thinking about sex with my hot girlfriend. So I need help. Is there perhaps a cheap herbal remedy for my leaking problem??