i'm wondering i am 14 and a girl and i never had one. does it hurt? i need to know what it is before i freak out!!!!! :-@
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You are 14, relax it will happen and when it does the surprise and intensity will be overwhelming. Not knowing is sometimes better than knowing ;)
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Honey, you don't need to know how it feels. You are too young and you should wait until you are married. This is something sacred between man and wife. Pray to stay chaste. Don't let guys use you. You are too special to God for that. He loves you more than any guy can.
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It certainly doesn't HURT.
If it hurt, people wouldn't masturbate.
So get that hand and fingers working and rub one out.
You'll LIKE/LOVE IT.
If you wait until you're married and expect him to give you an orgasm, you will most likely be very disappointed. Unless he's really experienced.
If it hurt, people wouldn't masturbate.
So get that hand and fingers working and rub one out.
You'll LIKE/LOVE IT.
If you wait until you're married and expect him to give you an orgasm, you will most likely be very disappointed. Unless he's really experienced.
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18 year old gentleman, here.
Regarding orgasm... I regularly masturbate, perhaps as often as three times a day and I do clearly orgasm and ejaculate. These orgasms are pleasurable but they are not as strong as watching pornography, talking with friends or even reading articles on this site would have me believe. Is there something not quite right about me or will the intensity of climaxing be more powerful during intercourse? I am obviously a virgin.
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Relax on the masturbation (3 times a day is fairly intense), Have you got a partner to practice with. I think pornography is a desensitising material. I actually am not at all interested in Porn but when i was 16-18 i was surprised and thought that was it.
The relationships you have with women are insanely better and porn feeds on your inhabitions, fantasies and also mutates reality.
I'd strongly recommend reducing your masturbation, I think masturbating is more of a means end (every 3 days or so) If you focus on meeting girls (or guys) and play out your sexuality with them. Wether intercourse or experimental foreplay I really think you will feel the difference and not want to be wacking off 3 times a day.
Just an FYI - The ejaculation i get when/if i masturbate is not enjoyable, the orgasm/ejaculate when I'm having sex with a partner is almost mind blowing.. It's addictive.
All the best kido
The relationships you have with women are insanely better and porn feeds on your inhabitions, fantasies and also mutates reality.
I'd strongly recommend reducing your masturbation, I think masturbating is more of a means end (every 3 days or so) If you focus on meeting girls (or guys) and play out your sexuality with them. Wether intercourse or experimental foreplay I really think you will feel the difference and not want to be wacking off 3 times a day.
Just an FYI - The ejaculation i get when/if i masturbate is not enjoyable, the orgasm/ejaculate when I'm having sex with a partner is almost mind blowing.. It's addictive.
All the best kido
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Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl. I got my first orgasm a couple weeks ago, and you really dont need to worry. It doesnt hurt, but you might not know whats going on. I've had a lot of orgasms since the first time and it feels great. It starts to feel like you have to pee, but dont worry about that. Your vagina and girl area, will start to tingle and you will for sure know when you get one. Now, cause we are lke the same age I say, dont get your first orgasm from sex with a guy who you know you wont ever marry. Get it from masturbating. At first you might feel like you shouldnt do it but, its okay. You should start by just rubbing your clit with your fingers the first time, which is how I got my first orgasm, or you could use the handle of your hair brush which is now my personal favorite. I hoped this helped. This is goning to sound wierd, but sometime watching lesbian porn helps me get an orgasm too.
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