Okay well, I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. And he basically is the only one orgasiming in our relationship. I've tried so hard to reach my climax when I'm having intercourse with him... He hasn't yet made me orgasm!!! Now about the birth control; I got it on Tuesday. And I've decided to take it on Sunday to start things off, but me and my boyfriend have had intercourse (no protection) and he hasn't orgasmed in me. I'm afraid that if I start taking the birth control, and if I might be pregnant that it could kill the fetus. Can anyone give me some advice please?