A man was deceived by his wife for 30 years, gets div.  Has one son.  Son feels obligated to help dad thru grieving process.  Dad does not believe he can find relationship, or that he will be able to trust women again.  Son finds the love of his life, gets engaged, is planning wedding, dad seems to make son feel guilty for not spending time with him. Causes guilt issues with son. Fiancee, not wanting to get in the middle of their business, tries to be content planning wedding, looking at homes, hoping son will eventually tell father that wife to be is just as, if not more, important.  The ? is, should the fiancee stay in this somewhat dysfunctional family situation?