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well the title says it all we had ad sex and where lieing in my bed kissing and she told me that she wanted to do me in the bum with a diloi asked you if she was joking and she said yes it turms her on..i didnt think much about it and we both went to sleep coz i was realy tired after work all day so i asked her about ti in the moringing and she said she want joking at all and she sad she wants to do it ..i was kinda schcked and she like went off to work while i was eating....
now im just wondering what i should do?
WILL IT BE BAD FOR MY HEAlth to have somthing in my bum like that?
i love her and she does things for me and i want her to do somthing for her but thgis could be a bit much.....
and how will she feel anythnig good from it coz nothing will be happening to her body?
does any 1 think she is joking and just messing with me head....because this has kinda messed my mind up
any advice? 8-| 8-| 8-| %-) %-) %-)
and whould it make me gay ? erm....... %-) %-) %-) %-) %-) %-)

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It probably turns her on so let her do it.
If she does it right you will cum just like during masturbation.
You may not want her to stop after you try it.
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well she got back from work at like 6 and after watching tv for a bit and having dinner she went to bed (at like 10:30) and b 4 she went she said she is going to go and buy it(it is all she said but im guessing she means the dildo coz i dont think she has 1 atm well..iv never seen 1)after work the morro so im guessing its going to happen tomorr night.....
i think im going to atleast try it ..i guess
but will my bum like feel difrent after like odd or what ? %-) %-)
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but i cant get the fact that it would just be kinda wrong out my head idk why...well its kinda clear getting done up the bum isnt somthing that happens to straght men....idk i think it would just make me feel gay or like a woman o.O o.O o.O
but i dont want to tell her no.........ehhhh.....??
but on the medical side will it be like bad for my bum itself??like damage the hole or somthing?
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Well there was a thread on here a while ago. Some guys do it during masturbation and say it's really good. If you massage the prostate it's sort of like hitting the G spot on a woman.

Why would it make you feel gay if your girl is doing it to you?
Does she feel gay when you eat her?
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He Derd! The ONLY reason why I'm being in this conversations is becasue you asked me OK? I usually dont' touch things like this! BUT here goes! I have 2 boys 14 and 17 and I will tell you what I tell them! "NEVER do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable NEVER!" I don't care if she wants you to do it upside down on a trapeze it isn't right! I am REALLY wondering where in the hell she is coming from! with this? IF you think about honey, IF you don't want to do it and she goes ahead with it, then bascially she is taking advantage of you! What would she doe if you were INSISTING on doing this to her and she wasn't particually into it or was uncomforatble! Would be a NO GO!! Right!? So just because you are a man does NOT mean that you don't have the same rights and boundries! I would tell her that you do NOT want this and hoepfully she's joking! IF she doesn't respect you then that's a BIG indication! NEVER settle to do somehting your're not comfortable with it! I say "Listen to your Spidey Sense's" If they say "NO!'Then it is "NO!" OK! Good luck honey! And also most women can't STAND Sodomy!!! It is only natural for gay men! And there are MANY things your have to do to be ready for this! So don't do anything OK?
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erm its nerly 6 she should be back soon ..
thanks for the imfo bambi i think im going to tell her no and see how she reacts ......
njoynlife you seen sure it would be a good thing 2 do.....
still conused about the matter ..
but thats what im going 2 do....
she could be joking about it to see how i rect but she didnt sem like she was joking .....
i guess illl keep u posted on what happens bambi
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just to let u know when she came home we kinda had a argumant(we make up now though) i tolld her i wasnt going to do it and she got all mad and was like mad and was like then why didn u tell me you would i got all exited about it and bought this thing*she pulls out like a WTF 18" dildo(i mean even if i was going to do it why the f**k would she use somthing that big*
i said i never said yes i just didnt say no and she was all AAAAAAAAAAAAAA and kinda sormed off into another room
i was like well f**k you being a stropy b***h
like i just set for a bit*watching trhe clevland show lol *
she came back and was like im sorry i was just looking forwad to it nd when u said no i was a bit angry
i said it was ok and we kissed and made up
but liker later when i went to bed at like 10 she folowed me and we started kissing and i wasnt sure where it was going lijke she might try and use the dildo or somthing
idk how much detal i should give but she was like giving me a ha****b licking the end and i precumed and she like covern her finger on her other hand in it and started fingering my bum....
it was nice i guess think we found a happy compromise
(im on here now coz like all the lighs and pc was lift on and i was just putting them off thought i whould just update u guys b 4 putting it off)
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If I were you I would ask her "WHY?!" It isn't a natural thing for a woman to think about! And that size would have HURT you VERY much if she had gotten her way! I wonder if she had been made to do something similar and lost her control of the matter, so now she wants to get BACK her control by inflicting on you! I ALWAYS study people and that is what makes sense to me! One of the most pleasurable spots for men is the vein inbetween their anus and testicles! DOESN'T mean that INSIDE is like that! I think you need to talk to her about what she was trying to do! Communication is key!
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Do you mean that seam up the middle where God stitched up the vulva to make a pouch for our balls?
That never did a thing for me except being very ticklish.
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And NOW you see why I don't touch these things with a 10 foot pole! THANKS Derd!!! ;-)

And NJoy!!!! Once again thankyou for the imagery GROSS!!!! :-S ;-)
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well ty gor the help bambi if id hve jst lisoned to njoynlife i guess id have had that huge thing in my ass by now.... >:( >:( >:(
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Whoa, back up the trolley here.
Don't try to blame me because madame desade came home with Bambi's 10 foot pole.
I expect YOU to decide what you're going to stand (or bend over) for. 8-|

And Bambi you still didn't tell me if that was the seam you were talking about.
I guess I need better imagery so you can understand me %-)
I'll try to do better next time :-S 8)
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i just dont know what is driving her to want to do thid in the first place..odd
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Derd! You need to ask her! I study people - ALWAYS have - and for them to want to do something I truly believe that they have had that done to them! I am not talking that she was made to have anal sex, what I'm talking about is that she NEEDED that control over YOU! a MAN!!! I REALLY think something else is going on with her - probably from her past! Not to attack you persay but for you to represent other men!! Does that make sense?

NJoy! I TOTALLY understand what you are talking about and PLEASE NO more descriptions for me anyway OK?! 8-| ;-) And yes that is what I was talking about!
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