so my girlfriend want to well..do me in the bum...

XD :-S 8-| ;-)

Anal fun is fine for men and women.
If you haven't tryed it then don't slag it off
try everything once, is that not what they say?
but 18" nah thats a joke
was it not 8"

I also study people and I disagree with you bambi
People DONT ALWAYS do things because they were done to them
sometimes people just have a twisted sexual character and partners who dont understand get all freaked out
There is a subculture of people who enjoy this including women so this isnt an isolated incident

Women can have a twisted sexual mind like men, without past abuse

I have to agree with the last comment. Men and women of any sexual orientation can enjoy anal sex. Bambi it may be that she wants to feel like she is in control, but I don't think that it is wrong to let her be in control every once in awhile. Derd, if you liked her playing with your anus while she gave you a ha****b, then maybe you should try anal sex. Maybe ask for a smaller dildo though. Try getting one that is small and just slowly work with it. If you don't like it then you can always stop, but you should at least give it a try, because sex is usually a large part of a relationship and if you aren't willing to try new things it might get boring or she might lose interest. Good luck and I hope it all works out for you.

Some girls like some 'control ' over their guys in bed..you will find you might LIKE that stimulation...its like hitting the male G spot when the prostrate is messaged

It's ok to do that man i would let her have me if she wants to and u don't my girlfriend loves to do that to me theres nothing wrong with it once u get it in side of u the feeling is wonderful my girlfriend let's her friends do that to me to some wemen need that controle so let her and she will respecte u and love u more i love it myself and i do have major orgasums like that so let her have some ass if u don't want to she can do my ass and she will love it and u realy need to try it it well not hurt u just make sure that she put's a condume on it my girlfriend uses one that is 14 " long and 3" wide i love it and the pleasor she get win i go in here she realy cums hard and alot so try one time and see okay.

Yeah, I'm a chick, and I got to say that this isn't as weird as you think. A lot of people go through their lives trying out new kinks in the bedroom. A lot of crazy sh*t. People you know do crazy sh*t, but most of the time people just don't talk about it. The key thing is that you have to talk through things THOROUGHLY. You have to communicate more. Lots of guys actually enjoy being topped by a girl, and enjoy the sensation on anal play, and if it isn't with a guy it isn't gay, and it isn't going to make you gay. Some people call it 'pegging'. Your girlfriend was not being fair by pressuring you into her fantasy, and especially not by springing an 18 inch dildo on you. Next time someone comes up with a kinky fantasy you aren't sure about, give yourself time to be sure. She wasn't joking, she got caught up is something she was really into and then probably thought if she didn't do it fast you'd say no (a bit selfish...she needs to work on that, but you also need to work on being more outspoken and knowing/communicating about your comforts). Next time someone proposes something like this, discuss with them how comfortable you are, and consider any health risks, then research it on the internet and plan it. Never ever pop your penis into a chicks ass without tons of fingering first, and never take a dildo in the ass until you've spent time working up to it SLOWLY.

taking a penis in the bum does not make you less of a man. Open communication and giving and taking sexually in a relationship makes you a good lover. You're always free to say no, but never be afraid to try new things, you might like them, just do them properly.