I'm quite curious as to what is going on. It didn't start hurting until a few days ago.
The night before, I didn't finger myself, but I played with my clitoris.
The next day, a friend grabbed it from outside of my pants a couple times and rubbed my vagina.
Now, my lips are swollen and red, and if I touch it with my hands it is really itchy.
Then, when I pee, my urine burns me.
I am 14, and I really don't want my mom to know.
What's going on, and how do I stop it?