so I lost my virginity a week ago, and already I have been diagnosed with a bladder infection, which I have been taking pills for, but now there are these weird bumps on the opening of my vagina and they hurt. The guy I was with was a virgin also, and had only done things with one girl before him and I have been dating him for a while so I know he doesn't have any STD's he could have given me, and also, I haven't been able to poop ever since I lost my virginity, are these all related or just a coincidence? and what are the bumps and what can I do to make them go away?