what to do if you cannot come during sex?

For all you husbands and boyfriends who cannot ejaculate (cum) during sex, I want you to know it is quite common, and you are not a freak! I researched this because it happeend to me, and discovered even if you have always been able to come before during sex, this condition can hit you suddenly and without warning. Not being able to ejaculate during sex makes the woman think she is unattractive, makes the man feel like a failure, and can cause relationship difficulties.
But it affects about one man in twelve (I know how bad this can be because I couldn't come during intercourse for a while, after I split up with my first wife) and it can be cured. Often the man is angry at the woman, and this affects his willingness to complete the sex act - mainly subconscious - it's not always obvious what's going on. If there is any tension in the relationship that doesn't make for great sex - and in any case tesnion usually starts when the man stops being able to shoot his load. Laslt, some men - not me, though - have this problem because they masturbated using hard, hard pressure during puberty and they cannot get off without similar hard pressure on their penis, which sex doesn't provide. Often they have to masturbate up to the point of no return, then qucikly put it in their partner to ejaculate inside her.
The good news is you cna get over this if you retrain your body...here's what helped me to come during sex....
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Fred