My boyfriend has small sores on his penis. there are 3 at the base very near his scrotum that have broken open and one near the head that has not. He says they do not hurt or itch. He first noticed them after we had had sex a week ago. He has something simular about a year ago. The doctor said it was an irriatation from sweat. These a alittle worse then last time. I was told 30 years ago when I was sixteen that I had Herpes. I had one sore on my vaginal area. I have never had a break out. I have had a huge amount of stress in my life and not broken out. I have had 3 kids with no breakouts. I was married for 15 years with no break outs and a couple other 3 year or longer relationships with no breakouts. Is it possible that after all this time I did have herpes and I gave it to him? Is there any other causes for this. I am positive that I am the only person he has been with in the last 3 years.