My boyfriend and I lost our virginity to each other 2 weeks ago, there was a lot of foreplay for around an hour and we had sex for about 4 minutes but it was hurting me too much so I had to stop him before he was able to ejaculate. I am 17 and he is 18 and we didn't use a condom because I was a virgin and he has had himself checked and is clear of everything and I am recently using birth control. I was nowhere near an orgasm because I was so uncomfortable and I felt quite dry, I think I was quite dry but I'm not sure there was quite a lot of friction, but then when we looked down there was a large, clear wet patch by my vagina on the bed. What was it? I've looked on the internet and they all say a wet patch is female ejaculation but I definitely did not orgasm. People say as well that it's semen which leaks out, but it was clear in colour and he didn't orgasm either. I want to know if it was me who caused it because I'd like to prevent it for the future it was quite embarrassing but he did not mind I think, we were both confused. Thanks!