Wife doesnt want sex at 30 yrs old

Unfortunatley the only answer in my opinion being a woman, lies in your wife. Do you have a good relationship other than sex? If you do, have you tried discussing the situation? I would give tips on how and what woes a woman, but every woman is different. And if your not having enough sex, I don't think sexual tips would work considering excitment is not the main problem. It's getting to see why your wife only wants sex when she wants it. I kno this is quiet personal and all, but it would help if u answered the question im about to ask you. When you are engaging in sex, at the times it doesn't seem to be pleasurable to her, are you doing anything different? Does it take a lot of coaxing to get her to want you wen u want it from her? Cause it's not healthy if you have to practically beg her for it, ya kno? U should tell her how much you want her. Sometimes depending on the woman it's more of a mental thing than a physical thing, yah know what I mean. U need to let her know how much u appriciated her. Try giving her her favorite flowers or taking her out on a date like when you first started going out. Treat her like a queen, and I'm sure that'll make her eyes twinkle! Oh yeah, and another question..tell me if I'm being to nosy, please....when she initiates sex with you, is it demanding, like kinda rough, like I want it now! kinda? Cause if that's the case, maybe she's doesn't kno how to say it, but wants to have rough sex? The key really is to approach your wife with this situation, but figure out a way to say it where it doesn't sound threatening to a woman. communication in this situation, really is KEY. Maybe if you could just talk it out, and figure out what she likes, or wants. A womans mind is never made up, and let me tell you as another woman, woman, NEVER EVER know what they want. And this is gonna sound completely outta the ball park, but maybe idk, this is way outta line, but me and my bf fantasies about sex with other people sometimes when were having sex. We'll verbally talk out like a threesome to each other while touching one another. Im not sure how trust worthy u and ur wife are, but obviously enough to go through vows of marraige. Try different things. I'm sorri if I'm a bit ballsy, but I tend to be being a trisexual, meaning I'll try anythin once as long as its sexually satisfying. Talk to her, take her out, maybe she feels a little alone on her side too, but in a different way~Jill

Wake up dude! A 30 year old woman who doesn't want sex anymore when that us the age that she should be a peak if sexual desires? She is obviously cheating on you and getting her needs satisfied by someone else.
Same thing happened to me. S, I took off one day and followed her. She was meeting up with different men in motels. I followed her for several days. Sometimes UT was the same man. Sometimes UT was several men. Most if them were black men.