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Hi Philisiwe25,
A condom is going to protect you against pregnancy and STD's. Don't let him talk you into sex without the use of condoms, it's your choice too. An honest, loving relationship will understand your concerns about pregnancy.
A condom is not going to make it hurt less or more. The penetration is what causes the pain. If he goes slow and uses lubricant than it should not be so bad.
The pain is momentarily and eases as your vagina gets used to the penile penetration. Let him know if he is going to hard, fast or slow. Communicate to him how you are feeling.
If he is virgin as well he may not be able to control his ejaculation, unless if he has been practicing while masturbating. Still your concern is not getting pregnant and I hope he understands and honors it and you.
Also, once you lose your virginity is a lifetime and can never get it back, so be sure this is what you want.
Good luck and hope this helps
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