Young daughter pleasuring herself? What can a parent do?

Guest over a year ago

The other night my husband and I were in bed when we heard coming from my 13 year old daughter's bedroom slight moaning. I got up to investigate and found the door of her bedroom was slightly open and I could see in the dressing tables mirror that my daughter was masturbating. What should I do

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Guest over a year ago

I caught my daughter masturbating as well. She is 13 also but she was totally nude and humping her pillow and moaning. She was humping so hard she was sweating. I didnt do anything I just let her have some fun.

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freshman noise over a year ago

Hi guest, she is just doing what comes natural for teens her age and probably been doing it a lot longer than you think, my advice is to do nothing and say nothing to her about it as it would almost certainly make her embarrassed if you do. The only thing I would advise you to do is talk to her about the importance and use of condoms when she gets into a sexual relationship not just to protect against pregnancy but more importantly to prevent sti's and std's, if the guy doesn't have one then it's no to sex no matter what he says and to also tell her it should always be her choice to have sex and not to feel like she is being pushed into it by a guy or friends just because they have done it.

You won't stop her from doing it when she is ready but what you can do is help her to understand how to stay safe.

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freshman noise over a year ago

And that's the right thing to do, let her experience what feels good and explore her own body.

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Guest over a year ago

My three girls share a room together. One day I came home and my oldest 17 year old was having sex with her boyfriend and when I peaked in her two sisters who are 13 and 15 where naked and masturbating on their beds watching. I was gonna say something but all of them orgasmed at the same time

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valid oyster over a year ago

You are a very open mom. That is impressive. Interested to know if you have talked to your daughters about their experiences you witnessed.

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valid oyster over a year ago

Have you and your hubby talked to her about the experience? Have you caught her spying on you having sex? How do the talk go?

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Guest over a year ago

Good job mama!! I remember sharing a room with my big sis when I was 6. I watched my sister give her boyfriend blowjobs. And he licked her p***y. I learned alot

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Guest over a year ago

did you masturbate?

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Guest over a year ago

I walked in on my 12 year old sister butt naked and humping away on a teddy bear. She had her eyes closed and was rubbing her titties. I got really turned on so I sat on my bed rubbing my p***y watching. That night I had sex with my boyfriend and my little sister started humping her bed again watching me ride my boyfriend

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Guest over a year ago

I tried. I didn't really know how but my sister's boyfriend licked my pu ssy and I was addicted since then

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Guest over a year ago

I have 8 years old daughter. Wife is hotel event coordinator and is away from home Thursday thru Fridays. When wife is away, daughter and I have routine of first thing in morning, sitting together a on sofa a watching cartoons. Recently, while daughter sat next to me on sofa, she pulled nightgown over waist and showed she didn't have no panties on. Her private parts was red and swollen. I think she was masturbating in her bedroom before she come to watch cartoons. Then she started rubbing her private parts while she was sitting next to me. I froze an was speechless. I dint no what to do. I just was quiet an watched. Should I have yelled at her or pulled her hands away. I feel embarrassed an confused. What should I have done? Worse part is I started getting erected while I watched. She has continued to this every morning since. I am stressed about what to do. I love my daughter an don't wanna be a bad father. What should I be doing? Help!

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Guest over a year ago

Don't tell at her or punish her. She obviously feels comfortable with you. Don't destroy that by telling her to stop. Reassure her by telling her that what she is doing is normal experimenting and exploring her body. As her if there is anything that she would like to ask you about what she is doing. It's a little surprising that she openly masturbating at age 8. So you might want to ask her where she learned to do it.

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Guest over a year ago

I dun what you sed an tolled her what she was doin duz ok an normal. She got must got more comfortable cause she start coming to watch cartoons without no clothes on at all. She jus sit down next to me all necked an spread her legs wide an start rubbing her cookie until it got all red an swollen an she starts moaning.
I am happy hat she trust me an feels comfortable to be such open wit me.

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Guest over a year ago

So I went ahead an asked daughter how come she knows about rubbing herself. She sayed she hid in closet an peeked mommy doin it in her bedroom. Then she sayed how come I don't rub myself when she do it like mommy's friend did. I asked what friend is you talking bout? She sayed you know the big black boyfriend.
When I asked her if that all they do, she sayed oh no! The drink lots of licker from bottle an then they kiss an lick each other all over an then boyfriend stick his Willy deep inside mommy and she sure like that cause she moan lots. When you gonna do that for me daddy! Do you want me kiss an rub your Willy for you to do that?
This has all gone someplace I don't plan for it to go. I feel that I have opened door I don't know how to close. Also I feel very angry an betrayed by wife an feel like I should get even wit her. But don't think doin sex wit daughter is the way even if she want to do it. Tonight, 14 years old friend from school is having sleepover wit daughter. Her mother is blonde an single mom. She is also good friend of wife. Maybe I should do sex wit her to get even wit wife?

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