Stopping Teen Violence

Teen violence can have a ripple effect. A teen who becomes a victim of violent behavior may become aggressive themselves. Additionally, teens who are abused may be more likely to become involved in abusive relationships in the future. But the cycle of teen violence can be broken.

Recognizing Signs of Teen Violence

Whether it involves bullying, dating violence or fighting, recognizing signs your teen has a tendency towards violence is essential to get them the help they need. Ignoring the problem or thinking your teenager will grow out of their behavior is never the solution. 

Even if you do not see your teen physically becoming violent, there are several signs he/she may have a problem. For example, being cruel to animals, showing a lack of empathy and having troubling controlling emotions are all signs your teen may need help.

If your teen has started to isolate themselves, use drugs or has become obsessed with guns or other weapons, it may also indicate a problem that could lead to violent behavior. Some teens also have a change in personality and declining school performance. 

Even when parents recognize signs their teen may have a tendency towards violent behavior; it can be difficult to accept. No parent wants to think their teen is capable of doing something violent. But it’s important to keep in mind, a teen who is violent is not necessarily a bad person. A large number of people who commit violent acts are not psychopaths. They obviously have problems controlling anger, but in many cases, treatment including counseling, cognitive behavior therapy and medication can help. 

Teen Violence Prevention

Although treatment is available for teens who demonstrate violent behavior, prevention is best. Parents and teachers should work together to recognize young people who are at risk for becoming violent and also those who are at risk of becoming victims.

One way to spot problems early is to stay involved in your teen’s life. Nothing can replace parental involvement. Make sure you know your teenager’s friends and dating partners. Keep lines of communication open, even if it is challenging at times. Spend time with your teen doing activities you both enjoy. 

Monitor what your child watches on TV and what type of video games they play. Consider limiting both activities to only an hour or two a day. Encourage participation in activities, such as sports, music and community programs. 

Talk to your teen about ways to deal with disagreements without getting in fights. Discuss bullying and appropriate dating behavior. Let your teen know he/she can come to you with any type of problem.

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If you think your child is at risk for becoming violent or becoming a victim, there are teen violence prevention programs in various communities. Talk to a counselor at your child’s school or your pediatrician to locate programs.   

Don’t hesitate to get help if your child appears to have a mental health or substance abuse problem. Although having a mental health diagnosis or a drug problem does not mean a teen will become violent, in some cases, it could be a contributing factor.