masturbation

your probably bi-sexual

blue21 wrote:

your probably bi-sexual

Thanks for your answer, but now more than ever I'm sure that I'm a MAN, I'd had those feelings, and I was insecure but now I think that my sexuality will go as far as I let it to go, so as I can control what I think I also can control my feelings and thoughts when masturbating. What I'm doing is not masturbating so often, doing other things, when i want to masturbate I think on other thing, and if I do it, I keep my mind and thoughts on girls, or just in the fact and pleasure of doing it but not thinking on boys, because if i do it i'll be gay, and I'can't stand the idea when I'm normal.

Thanks anyway.

EGCV

I too have struggled with thoughts of males during masturbation.it doesnt mean your gay or even bi-sexual,it means your curious and there is really nothing wrong with that.I will pray for you brother!

If you were gay, you have already known. No, it's fine to have those fantasies. I'm a straight girl, and it was proven that the idea of having sex with the same gender increases self-excitement. You're gonna be fine.

I can speak out of experience, as I have had this thought before. I like to masturbate to lesbian porn, amd I am not ashamed. But I have had boyfriends and had sex. This may be just a thought. Or maybe you are bi-sexual. I just want to say that this is completely normal. 

 

Hoped this helped!

It is entirely normal for males to fanatsize about sexual involvement and activities with other males, particularly if their experience with females is limited (or non-existent)..

As a male yourself, your body is exploring your sexual senses, and so the only thing you have to work with is how another boy might feel to you. It's hard to imagine something else when you have no material ("hands-on") experience to work with.

Finding our sexual identity along the full spectrum of human sexuality is a long journey that may never be fully resolved. In other words, our evolving experiences, desires, successes and failures, emotional satisfaction and health all dictate to whom we want to see ourselves being involved -- who we will desire. It's always "in-progress" so to speak.

So, whichever way you go to find sexual pleasure and satisfaction, learn, and consider what you feel from those encounters. There are no rules; you MUST be true to who you are at any given point iin your life. Love whom you can, and good luck!