My husband and I normally have protected sex since I am not a fan of how birth control makes me feel and if we have another child, it's absolutely fine. But it's been a while since I had a child and the memories are 5 years old, I honestly can't remember exactly how I felt at the very beginning. Well on the 28th(11 days ago) we went out on a date after a long time and well a couple of glasses of wine and one thing lead to another and we were careless. He did not ejaculate in me though. My dot always starts on the 30-2nd and lasts a good 6-7 days. Well i got my dot on the 1st and it only lasted 2 1/2 days....red flag?? Now 5 days later I feel crampy and my lower abdomen feels tender but not like a bladder infection. Other than that all else is normal. I can't take a pregnancy test for another week or two for the HCG levels to be detectable and it's not imperative I find out ASAP...but I my mind is beginning to wander......I wanted to wait another 2 years until I was 30 to begin this path again but surprises happen....