53 yr female who has sex desires but can't reach an orgasim, ever with oral what can I do

I am a 64 year old male and have been a neuromuscular therapist for over 30 years. I was trained in China. I have completed over 10,000 massages only on ladies and I have never had a lady that could not have an orgasm.  For some it is harder to have the orgasm but they always do have one. As we get older it just takes a little longer and your partner has to be patience. Cleaness is a key word for your partner to take the time to make you cum with extreme pleasure. A great deal of times a male is turned off by a bad smelling vagina or anus. Many women who smoke menthol cigaretts have a smell in their private areas that is a big turn off. When a man gets ready for penetration and runs across this smell, all he wants to do at this point is ejaculate and get away from the woman as quickly as possible. He does not care that she has not reached her climax.With all my female clients I could always tell who smoked menthol, who smoked regular cigaretts and which ones did not smoke at all. I do not know which catagory you fall in but I can tell you that the non menthol smokers and the non smokers were and are the easiest to bring to an excellent conclusion. Believe me, if you find the right partner , you will explode with pleasure. It may take an hour massage paying particulr attention to your vagina, anus and nipples along with your feet and lower back. It may take stimulating you G-spot in debth but you will have a massive orgasm. My advice is find you a very patience partner.

Hi,

Are you saying you have never had an orgasm in your entire life? Or did you used to be able to reach orgasm but lost the ability? 

If it's the first, I'd honestly advise you to get a vibrator. Reaching female orgasm is so much easier with a vibrator than in other ways for many, many women. You can also try your hands and the showerhead. Not being able to climax during oral could be due to feeling stressed or self-conscious, and nearly no woman has vaginal orgasms. 

If it's the second, your issue may be due to hormonal changes related the menopause? There's help for that, so talk to your doc.