About 3 weeks ago. My boyfriend was grinding on me. We were both fully clothed. He had on jeans and boxers and I had on leggings and a thong. He touched his penis inside his pants then touched me over my clothes. I think he had precum on his hands. Can I get pregnant? I was on my fertile window. I did get my period but it was just spotting for a couple days. Thank you for your responses. I am scared.
It is highly unlikely you would get pregnant from what little you have said.
- What exactly did you mean by he "touched me over my clothes"? It is highly unlikely that sperm could swim through the fabric of leggings and a thong unless both were extremely thin/open-weave and you (and the fabric) were very, very wet. Even so, sperm would have to find its way to your vaginal entrance and then enter.
- What other sexual activity have you had (and when) since your previous period?
- Was your period that "was just spotting for a couple days" unique, or have you had times like this previously?
- What were the dates of your last 3 period starts?
- What is your usual cycle length (typically 28 days)?
- How did you ascertain that it happened in your fertile window?
- How old are you?
- Where are you from?
- Are there any cultural/religious implications?
I hope this is a help as a start, but I wait to hear back from you to see if I can further allay your fears.
What I meant from touching over my clothes is he was rubbing me over my pants over my vaginal area.
My thong was cotton and my leggings were spandex. I don't believe they were open weave but I was wet from my own discharge.
I have not had any other sexual contact. Only this which was approximately 3 weeks ago.
I did have some blood clotting today so I am not sure if my period was just delayed.
I took a home pregnancy test and it came out negative but my breast feel tingly and heavier than normal and I have been sick to my stomach for the past couple days.
My period is typically 24 days.
I believe it was in my fertile window bc it was 12 days before my next period.
I am in my early 20s and don't have much sexual experience due to strict religious beliefs.
I am so very very scared that I could be pregnant.
I learned a very valuable lesson I just hope it's not to late. Would a pregnancy test show positive by now?
You haven't given an exact date when this happened, but if it were 19th Oct or before, then a test would certainly be reliable now, and likely to be reliable anyway. I don't think there is any chance of pregnancy.
You say that you have learned a valuable lesson, which is good. Have you considered how you will make sure you don't get into this state again?
I hope this helps.
I was in Urgent Care on Friday, November 4th due to my Kidney stones and because they did a CAT scan on me they had to do a blood pregnancy test which came out
However ovulation is not really directly linked to your last period, but rather your next period is linked to your ovulation. A period usually starts 2 weeks after ovulation (assuming no pregnancy) when the womb's preparation for pregnancy is no longer required and is discharged in what we term a period.
This means that if the cycle is 30 days, then ovulation would occur CD 17, and fertile days would be CD12-17. Likewise if your cycle is 24 days, then ovulation would occur CD 11, and fertile days would be CD6-11
With a 24-day cycle and a period starting 11 Oct, 21 Oct could have been your Ovulation Day, but as you had spotting on 3 Nov, it is likely you ovulated a day early, so 21 Oct might not have been a fertile day. Anyway, the blood test on 4th Nov would have picked up a pregnancy. So you are not likely to be pregnant.
I hope this helps.
You seem very knowledgeable about this. Have you ever heard of someone getting pregnant threw clothing. The internet can be a scary place.
Blood tests are reliable, and can detect pregnancy earlier than home tests.
There are those who claim to have got pregnant that way, but I know of no verifiable incidents (nor have I done extensive research).
Remember that sperm swim - they cannot walk or crawl. So to pass through clothing there would have to be a lot of fluid and room for them to swim through the fabric. Then there would have to be enough arousal fluid for them to swim into the vagina.
I would think that there would have to a full ejaculation onto open-weave underwear (like lace) right at the entrance of a very wet vagina for there to be any realistic chance of pregnancy following. But it only takes one sperm to survive the hostile journey!
I hope this helps.