Yes, there is a chance that your hymen was broken. That's more than likely the case. But if like that one girl said, it hurts when you pee and it keeps bleeding, you definitely have a potentially serious problem and need to get checked out by a doctor right away.
I've heard of too many friends that have had things happen to them down there and been afraid to get it checked out or tell anyone, and it always ends up for the worse. Not to frighten anyone, but one girl had to have surgery because she was just 'so sure' that she couldn't get an infection.
It's really better to be safe than risk your health. Just go to the doctor or tell your mom you need to go to the doctor. If you're afraid of telling her why, you can do what I did and tell your mom you've been having really messed up periods, like 3 weeks long and it's horrible. Then, when you see the doctor make sure (or ask, if need be) to be in the room by yourself, and you can tell the doctor what is really wrong with you. Still the same area of medical concern, so you'll get the right kind of doctor, and you can keep a bit of privacy with your life.
And the doctor can't and won't say anything to your mom. Doctor-patient confidentiality is something that doctors are legally bound to. Saying something to your mom makes them risk losing their job, so they definitely won't do it.
Hope I could be of some help! Good luck!
I've heard of too many friends that have had things happen to them down there and been afraid to get it checked out or tell anyone, and it always ends up for the worse. Not to frighten anyone, but one girl had to have surgery because she was just 'so sure' that she couldn't get an infection.
It's really better to be safe than risk your health. Just go to the doctor or tell your mom you need to go to the doctor. If you're afraid of telling her why, you can do what I did and tell your mom you've been having really messed up periods, like 3 weeks long and it's horrible. Then, when you see the doctor make sure (or ask, if need be) to be in the room by yourself, and you can tell the doctor what is really wrong with you. Still the same area of medical concern, so you'll get the right kind of doctor, and you can keep a bit of privacy with your life.
And the doctor can't and won't say anything to your mom. Doctor-patient confidentiality is something that doctors are legally bound to. Saying something to your mom makes them risk losing their job, so they definitely won't do it.
Hope I could be of some help! Good luck!
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oh and one more thing...
I'm not exactly advocating that you lie to your parent(s), but if someone is too afraid to tell the truth and let something pose a risk to themselves, I hope that this will at least help them from endangering themselves.
you should definitely NOT lie to your doctor, no matter how embarassing. i mean, unless you don't want to get any better...
ok, now for real this time, good luck!
I'm not exactly advocating that you lie to your parent(s), but if someone is too afraid to tell the truth and let something pose a risk to themselves, I hope that this will at least help them from endangering themselves.
you should definitely NOT lie to your doctor, no matter how embarassing. i mean, unless you don't want to get any better...
ok, now for real this time, good luck!
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Question; is it a sure thing that you haven't an infection if the bleeding stops immediately?
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ive been with my boyfriend for over 5 months now and all ive done is wanked him off but the other night i knew he was trying to get into my trousers i let him but he didnt do anything and i was wondering if i get fingered the first time will i bleed and i don't know what to say to him if i do bleed? 8-| o.O
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What does it feel like to be fingered by the way x ?
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What does it feel like to be fingered by the way x ?
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by law the dr. cannot tell your parents anything about your sex life. I was told this by my dr. and she's friends with my mom!! So Unless your mom is in the dr's room with you when they ask, then there should be no problem.
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This is only half true.
You don't want an infection in any open wound.
It may have been too rough. He needs to lighten up.
I'd wait two weeks. or more. Until you can educate Mr. Heavy Hand.
But to say that you will probably never have kids based upon heavy or rough fingering is impossible to predict. Sounds like scare tactics by either this poster, or by the doctor. Frankly, I'm disgusted that anyone would try to convince someone of this.
The poster who began "Bah, you're all wrong" actually makes the best sense, even though that's a rough way to start. Listen to them. And lighten up.
You don't want an infection in any open wound.
It may have been too rough. He needs to lighten up.
I'd wait two weeks. or more. Until you can educate Mr. Heavy Hand.
But to say that you will probably never have kids based upon heavy or rough fingering is impossible to predict. Sounds like scare tactics by either this poster, or by the doctor. Frankly, I'm disgusted that anyone would try to convince someone of this.
The poster who began "Bah, you're all wrong" actually makes the best sense, even though that's a rough way to start. Listen to them. And lighten up.
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Oh my goodness....first of all, you can't get pregnant if the penis is not inside you. If you're dry humping or anything of that matter, the sperm dies within 3 seconds the minute it touches air. You can't get pregnant if you give oral sex either and swallow, that's a WHOLEEEE other system in your body and nowhere near your reproductive. I only know this because I read a lot and my doctor told me.
Now on to why I came to post here...
I got fingered today by my boyfriend, and at some points it hurt a little but I just dealed with it because it wasn't excruciating pain..just, eh I don't know how to explain it, uncomfortable I guess? Sort of stung a little? I know it stung right after. I noticed a couple of his fingers had blood on them, I went straight to the bathroom, and sure enough, blood stain on my underwear...I wiped myself down there and there was blood on the toilet paper too. He was rough while doing it, but he was rough previous times too and I never bled those times.
Maybe its my period coming? Because I haven't had it in a month.
Now on to why I came to post here...
I got fingered today by my boyfriend, and at some points it hurt a little but I just dealed with it because it wasn't excruciating pain..just, eh I don't know how to explain it, uncomfortable I guess? Sort of stung a little? I know it stung right after. I noticed a couple of his fingers had blood on them, I went straight to the bathroom, and sure enough, blood stain on my underwear...I wiped myself down there and there was blood on the toilet paper too. He was rough while doing it, but he was rough previous times too and I never bled those times.
Maybe its my period coming? Because I haven't had it in a month.
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possibly a urinary track infection. get it checked out very soon. it gets very very painful; its caused by bacteria in there; tampons being in there too long; dirty fingers; objects; they all can cause it.
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ok my bf started fingering me, and getting rough and pretty deep
but this was twice today in the afternoon and at night
the first time, i started bleed a lottt
the second, i bled a little, but there was severe pain
and it hurts whenever i make even the slightest move
so is it infected or something
someone please help me... im scared :cry:
but this was twice today in the afternoon and at night
the first time, i started bleed a lottt
the second, i bled a little, but there was severe pain
and it hurts whenever i make even the slightest move
so is it infected or something
someone please help me... im scared :cry:
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omg PLEASE BE CAREFUL!
my bf did that to me 4 the 2nd time a few days ago... not only did i bleed a lil, but i got genital warts :[
it's a b***h. so make sure they wash their hands and DON'T HAVE WARTS!!
my bf did that to me 4 the 2nd time a few days ago... not only did i bleed a lil, but i got genital warts :[
it's a b***h. so make sure they wash their hands and DON'T HAVE WARTS!!
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this has never evr happened to me! omggg but reading it sounds scary.
I'd suggest all girls stop getting fingered! lol !
I'd suggest all girls stop getting fingered! lol !
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ok so i have blead to when i was being fingered, but now my vagina has been itching alot for the past 4 days, could it just have a cut that has gotten infected, or is this herpes? im scared! please help me!
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The same thing has happened to me too. it didnt used to but for the past couple months every time we do it happens. its starting to get really frustrating. is there any way to figure out y and to still be able to do that w/ out it bleeding?
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Every time my boyfriend fingers me i spot or bleed. this didnt used to happen but has been for the past couple months. it feels great, maybe hes just being to rough n i like that but either way this is getting annoying and i wish it would stop.
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so the person that answered this: does this danger only exist if you get fingered when you are on your period?
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