My bf fingered me; did he break hymen?

Hi, My husband and I were seeing each other for 3 years before we got married with no sex. We were still virgins at the age of 22. One evening we both got a bit carried away and, although he didn't "Finger" me as in entering my vagina as he knew that I wanted to be a virgin on our wedding night, He did stroke the outside bits. Although he was very gentle with me I bled the following morning. When I went to the doctor to go on the pill before getting married I was examined and my hymen was still intact. I lost my virginity on our wedding night, it was the first time for both of us and we both felt that very special moment when John broke my hymen. I had my first full orgasm that night and our love life has got better and better. Have you considered using a vibrator if you want to break your hymen? It took me about three days after making love for the first time, to stop spotting and I didn't have any pain.