bleeding during and after my boyfriend fingered me.. did he break my hymen?

person over a year ago

about 2 days ago I fingered my girlfriend and when I pulled my fingers out there was blood. I think I may have scratched her but I'm not sure if she needs to see a doctor because of that or if it will stop. She said it doesn't hurt except a little bit when she pees and there is blood when she pees. I'm worried for her and Ittd be great to know whether she needs to go for a check up or whether she needs to anything in particular. She can't really say anything to her parents as they are of the religious kind.

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close_one over a year ago

*!* Heyyy, dont worry....i wnt to my doctor and asked him about the bleediing after my bf fingerd me. he was doing it pretty hard and it dint hurt afterwards but it did when i peed and i was bleedn. My doc said it couold be b/cz im not used to it but he said it could also be that im kinda young and that Im not used to having that stuff up tHERE.. he also said that it could be the breaking of my hymen. but he said not to worry but dont to it for a wk if the bleeding doesnt stop then then dont do it for a nothe wk b/c it could prevent you for having children in the future. BUt i am so glad i asked my doctor.. and didnt do it agian or i would tottally be screwed... it was weird tlking to my male doctor about this..but way better than tlking to my dad or mom....

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drgoldyverma209125 over a year ago

OK IT CAN BE POSSIBLE GET AGAIN HYMEN FOR VIRGINITY ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** private e-mails not allowed*** Please read our Terms of Use

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Guest over a year ago

the same thing happened to me im conserned

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Guest over a year ago

i have had the same thing happen to me. except its when i masterbate. and my bf has already broken my hymen when we had sex n yes he used a condom. but everytime i masterbate with objects that is i bleed a little. can someone please tell me if this is seriously bad? im scared.

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1234 over a year ago

For the past 3 days, my boyfriend has been fingering me, The first day was my first time and it wasn't bleeding as much and it didn't hurt as much to go pee, The second day he did it again and it did hurt to go opee but it wasn't as bad but the last day the third day it hurts and stings like hell to go pee. He was rough I know he was and His nails are short. could i have a uti ?

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kiranravi227274 over a year ago

My friend got fingered today from her bf a bit rough but not so deep.. there s no bleedin but pain is there since a day.. what might be the problem? is there any solution to this pain? please do reply

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Guest over a year ago

The same thing happened to me. Almost exactly to cawabungachick06. Or never been fingered until I got into a relationship with my current boyfriend, and the first time went fine. Strange and new, but fine. Everytime after that I have bled, though. The second time was not as bad. But the two or three times afterward consisted of a lot of blood. And it wasn't blood like you'd get on your period but it was watery and light reddish- brown. We had also decided to take our relationship to the next level and given eachother our virginity. Sadly we didn't last two minutes before I was bleeding all over the place. In the beginning we were having a hard time just to get him to go inside me, but somehow after that was solved it felt like I was being stabbed and then I had to run off to the bathroom with a trail of blood behind me. It's become a neusance and I'm starting to get quite worried. Is there something wrong with me? Did I just break my hymen? But then why did I bleed so much each of those times? I'd also like to mention that my boyfriend is a tad rough with all of these actions for we are both will learning and are inexperienced. I just want I make sure everything is okay.

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Sunburst233821 over a year ago

Bleeding and pain is not uncommon during a woman's first few sexual experiences. Hopefully, you are with a partner who considers how you feel and is willing to stop/slow down if needed.

About your hymen, don't sweat it! Think about what kind of partner you want to spend your life with, and ask yourself if you want to commit to someone who will judge your worth by the condition of your hymen...

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kjones over a year ago

you an him is just plain nasty

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Guest over a year ago

He probely just went to hard. tell him to be careful next time

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Guest over a year ago

Could you get an infection?