bleeding during and after my boyfriend fingered me.. did he break my hymen?

I didnt et an infection when i got fingered, and i was on y period..you just have to keep clean and wash really good down there then there shouldnt be a problem! :-)

Yeah, this happened to me today too. I have had sex beore and have been fingered plenty of times, and have never bleed. Today my ex boyfriend and I were playing around and he ended up fingering me. We have hooked up before and I have never bleed with him or anyone else. Though, today I just ended my period. Anways, he started to finger me with four fingers...is that too much? Cause thats when I started to bleed but it didnt hurt really. And I don't think I needed lube at all....


(so ladies perhaps watch for how many fingers they use)

i've had sex before, the first time, i bled. so i'm pretty sure i've already broke my hymen because it was a bit painful. anyway i've had sex a few times since and the other day, my boyfriend was fingering me. he used three fingers becuase we'd both discussed it and were curious. he went back to two and i thought i was excessively wet so he looked and i was bleeding. it wasn't pure though. he said that he felt a ball thing because he was going pretty deep and it was about the size of a marble, and we wonder if this is what caused it?

i'm not sure if it's related but lately i've also been very itchy down there at night. whether it is relative or not, i'm not sure.

does anyone have and advice ??

this has sort of happened to me,
i've been fingered a few times by my boyfriend, the other day he did it rougher, harder and with more fingers then usual and i noticed a slight bit of blood. it went after a day and so i thought nothing of it. then tonight, he fingered me again, only using one finger & two for a few minutes but he was very gentle and i did not feel any pain. after a minutre he notcied he had blood on his fingers and when i went to the toilet my underwear was covered in blood which looked like a period. i know its not my period as i only came off about a week and a half ago. im not sure what to do because im not in any proper pain, it doesnt even really hurt. im a virgin and my boyfriend has only sleopt with one girl who was also a virgin so it cant be an STD, can someone please help im really scared?

Ok so same thing happened to my gf and if u bleed like a little bit its just hurting your vagina, but if you bleed a lot u busted yer hymen or in other terms "cherry"

Ohgod same thing happened to me yesterday. D: My boyfriend went really hard with like 3 fingers & I started bleeding really bad, but my cherry's already been popped o.0 & then the rest of the day it hurt even if he just put two in there so we stopped... But we had sex & it didn't hurt at all?! I was confused, lol.

Its okay though, don't worry lol. It stops bleeding after like 15 minutes.

what happen to you when your boyfriend fingered you was similar to what happen to me just lastnight. well see what happen was anytime my bf was fingering me i would never bleed but last night i was and it scared me....majorly!
and i was crying because i was having thoughts run through my mind woundering if i was pregnant or couold i become pregnant because he kept wanting to put his penis inside of me becuase he was so hard. he didnt use a condom when the act occurred but he kept saying he didnt cum. but he was only inside of me for not even a min. so i didn't know what to think or believe. i was scared for the most part intill my bf told me to calm down and everything was going to be fine. he had looked on the internet and showed me the signs and everything so i found out that you can get poped by getting fingered. if he uses more than what your vagina can hold than there's a 50% chance that yours did pop. im only 16 and this happened to me. yes it hurt alot but my God believe me i made sure i knew hwat just happened to me. so my advise to you is that next time your bf wants to do anything with you like that makesure you find out what could happen, what the sideaffects are and things like that. i wish the best luck for you and your bf!

How though? if you have already had sex and youve been open, how can fingering after break your membrain? wouldnt already be broken?

My boyfriends fingered me many times to. but the last time he did it rougher and with more fingers. I didnt know i bled til i got home and i was positive i was 2 weeks away from my period. but i remember it hurt and kinda felt good. it was a slight jab but thats it. i think he broken my hymen. but i waited one week before i allowed him to do it again. again it was a quick pain but it hurt less and felt even better. their was a little blood again but not much. i waited 2 weeks (period :-( ) and he did it again. that time their was no blood or pain... but it felt amazing. so i think he probably broke your hymen if their was a little blood. just wait like a week.

This happened to me a few weeks ago, my boyfriend was fingering me, really roughly and more fingers than usual, and I told him to stop because something hurt.. But I didn't think anything of it until I looked down and there was blood everywhere..
I figured it wasn't my period because I just finished it, it wasn't my hymen breaking because I've had sex many times before and I went to the toilet and it stung so much when I peed, turns out that he didn't even have long or sharp fingernails but because it was so rough he had torn the skin at the very back of my vagina, its all good now though thank god.

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having to pee very often like every 10s and pain when urinating are symptoms of bladder infections. They are due to bacteria. try drinking lots of water so that you pee it all out. Make sure you don't hold it in, it would make the effects worse. Pee when you need to pee, and drink lots and lots of water to pee it all out. sooner or later, it will slowly disappear.

It happened to me yesterday my boyfriend was fisting me and i just started bleeding! I think i might of broke my hymen and i have been bleeding ever since it hurts everytime i pee i have done this loads of times before im not on my period because i finished a week before can anybody help me?

i need advice....basically, my boyfriend fingered me last week and it didnt hurt at all, but then he fingered me again a couple of days ago and it did for a short amount of time, i started bleeding a bit and it hurt when i went to the toilet, but then after that i was fine.
Im not sure if he broke my hymen or not because i looked at my vagina and it still looks the same as before? and the hole is not any bigger :S
If so then i dont know what happend?
Please help me im confused!

i think he popped your cherry and wen he fingered you did he see tht u was bleedin and if he did did he mind ? was u embrassed wen u bleed

I have several questions and webmd doesnt have any answers, so here i am. I'm 22 and 2nights ago i decided to give my virginity to my boyfriend. he's fingered me several times before and i never bled. he knew this would be my first time so he was very gentle. everything started out fantastic but then it almost turned into a disaster. first, he had a very difficult time getting inside me even tho he was rock hard- i was too tight, he could barely even get a finger in. after a few minutes of trying i loosened up enough for him to get himself in and i felt him pop me on the first thrust (hurt like hell for a split second but then i was fine) and i felt extremely wet so i thought maybe i had cum. Then after only a few minutes of very slow, very gentle penetration, he pulled out and said "babe, we gotta stop. you're bleeding really bad." I sat up and was horrified- Blood was everywhere. his entire hand was covered- it was dripping down his arm and down his legs and there was a small puddle on the floor. (thank goodness we decided to move off of my brand new couch!) I ran to the bathroom and i dripped a trail all the way there. i soaked through two ultra tampons in less than 10 minutes so i gave up and just straddled a towel. After a while it finally slowed down enough for me to try another tampon so we could get some sleep. I kept tampons in all yesterday and this morning the bleeding has finally stopped. i kno its not my period cuz that was not period blood, it was like i had been stabbed with a knife. we've both been too terrified to try again even tho neither of us got off.

1- i know its normal to bleed when you pop your cherry but HAS ANYONE ELSE EVER BLED THAT MUCH? It was so bad that my boyfriend wanted to take me to the ER (can you imagine explaining what happened? lol) but we wouldve gone in if it hadnt slowed down.

2- we've had issues with me being too tight before. on several occasions he's only had one finger in and i got so tight that he couldnt get it back out- his finger actually went numb by the time i relaxed enough. Is it normal for virgins to be that tight? He doesnt know cuz he's only been with one other girl. It seems to be that i start out loose and as i get more turned on i tighten up. ive done my research pretty well and i do kegels on a regular basis, do i just need to learn the opposite of kegels or something? im worried that if i hurt his finger, when we finally try again, i'll hurt him when he's inside me, if we get that far, if i dont hemorrhage again.

please if anyone has a similar story let me know how it went with you, or if any guys had any of this happen with their girl

and i know someone will ask so yes we were being safe