hey i am a boy 23 yrs of age, i just cannot masturbate to orgasm, i have tried many times & get's weary at times. but i am having those wet dreams. i am so desperate & i need some help. PLEASE HElP ME ANYONE.i have no history of any major illness or i am not taking any medicine and all. i dont take alchole nor do i smoke. from age 13 or 14 i had this wet dream's only that is all. i am a virgin & i might commit suicide if this goes on like this. HELP HELP HELP
Not all MEN can orgasm via the traditional up and down motion. Some guys can only ejaculate by "humping" objects. Try different ways, whatever makes you feel good.
Everything works if you're having wet dreams - there is nothing wrong with that.
You'll likely ejaculate once you start having sex.
Hope it helps.
First of all LOADS of thanks for the reply to my query. sir, i forgot to mention i dont have any erectile issue, can maintain erection for about 40 - 45 min at max ( approx). i have been doing all sorts of research on my issue, n i came up with all those fancy jargons in medical science like "RETROGRADE EJACULATION" and damages to nerves n all. i am still worried if i am having any of these.
what doctor should i consult with ?
felt lot of relief when u said " some guys can only ejaculate by humping objects" ( sir is there any theory or background to support your statement "i am curious")
well now i feel a lot relaxed.
See a urologist.
The only background is to read through some of the threads on this forum. It's not something most men talk about.
If you ejaculate during wet dreams, it is not "retrograde ejaculation." In a retrograde ejaculation you will orgasm but the sperm goes back up into the bladder instead of out your penis. You'd notice cloudy urine.