I am 36 years old, been married for 12 years, we have an 11 year old son, and we have been trying to have another baby for 10 plus. I had a regular period in October, then 10 days before I was due for my period this month I spotted bright pink for less than a day, then nothing , my breast are tender, I have been peeing alot. I am having trouble coming to terms with what might or might not be happening to my body. We recently had to move in with my mother inlaw because she has alzhiemer's and is unable to care for her own basic needs. We are so stressed out, even with 3 adults in the house, it is hard to cope with the anger, agression and wandering, Alzhiemers is the cruelest disease. I am not so sure I can take care of my responsibilities asa a caretaker and a mother of a newborn. I never thought I would feel this way, I have dreamed of having another baby for 10 years, and it happens now. I am physically disabled, my husband had to give up his job to care for his mother, because I cannot do the physical lifting. I keep hoping it is due to stress, that I will wake up and have my period. My husband has always wanted another child, but won't even talk about it now, Is there anyway to get a definitive answer without doctors and test as we are living on 800 dollars a month for 5 people?If it had happened at any other time I would be jumping with joy. I am so freaked out right now, I wish I had the answers.