Hi! I am 20 years old girl and I desperately fell in love this guy who is 33. I know the difference is huge but believe me that’s not the only problem.
We have been seeing each other for two months now and I have never been happier. Like there’s some kind of magic between us, whenever we are together I wish for nothing else and when he approaches me I feel like fainting. I have never felt like this before.
Now, the bad part comes. A month ago I found out he has been living with a girl for quite some time. It was not him who told me, I heard it from someone else. When I asked him about that, he admitted and said she was supposed to leave his flat in three weeks time when she will move back to her own place (which she has been renting). I decided to break it off with him and not see him until she moves out. However, I couldn’t stand being away from him and a few days later I continued seeing him. She hasn’t left yet and this is so frustrating, I feel marked for seeing a guy who already has a woman (everybody knows about), I can’t stand the thought that they live together but I also can’t stand being without him. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? Do you have any words of wisdom for me?
We have been seeing each other for two months now and I have never been happier. Like there’s some kind of magic between us, whenever we are together I wish for nothing else and when he approaches me I feel like fainting. I have never felt like this before.
Now, the bad part comes. A month ago I found out he has been living with a girl for quite some time. It was not him who told me, I heard it from someone else. When I asked him about that, he admitted and said she was supposed to leave his flat in three weeks time when she will move back to her own place (which she has been renting). I decided to break it off with him and not see him until she moves out. However, I couldn’t stand being away from him and a few days later I continued seeing him. She hasn’t left yet and this is so frustrating, I feel marked for seeing a guy who already has a woman (everybody knows about), I can’t stand the thought that they live together but I also can’t stand being without him. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? Do you have any words of wisdom for me?
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well im only 14 and had have been in love with this boy who has a gf i just avoid seeing them at school he kisses her in front of me on purpose and he knows i love him cause my friends told him so i just act like he isnt around but deep inside i wanna cry when i see them 2 and i wanna smack him for doing that to me u know ...and the least he cud of done was talk to me and say listen i am inlove with some gurl and i cant be with u because of that. but no0o0oo0 he just went of and got a gf i knew something strange was happening when all of a sudden he ignored me and stopped saying hi to me and stuff 2 weeks be4 they got togeather. Now i have a bf :-) u should see teh look on his face when he sees us togeather lol haha pay backs a b***h isnt it ;-)
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You really really really should stay away from him until his gf moves out. I know if i where the girl and i found out about this i would be devestated! If he really likes you then he'll leave his gf, but pleaseee whatever you do do not stay with him while hes with the other girl, trust me he WILL leave her if he cares about you enough, if he stays with both of you at the same time then im sorry to say hes a horrible guy who is likely to cheat, and i dont recommend to go out with someone like that, ive been through that before, its heartbreaking. Try and talk to him and tell him you'll be with him once the other girl is gone.
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Dear monibre, what you're feeling is normal. But if he can't still leave this girl, don't assume that he is really that into you. make sure first that he is yours 100%.
Cheer up! Bear in mind that apart from God, you alone are in control of your life, not him or anyone else.
Cheer up! Bear in mind that apart from God, you alone are in control of your life, not him or anyone else.
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