I'm sexually inexperienced and only had sex recently. My gf is in her 20s. i don't know much about her sexual history. When I penetrate her, my penis' head (wearing a condom) didn't feel any pressure sensation. I lost my erection after a few minutes. I did feel some tightness around the lower part of my shaft. Does she have a loose vagina, or is this normal, or maybe she didn't grip me enough?
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One of the most common complaints about using a condom is the lack of sensation on the part of the male. Unfortunately, the insulation of the head of the penis by the rubber or laytex is something that can't really be changed much.
Oh, you'll see ads for "The thinnest condom ever" or "Like wearing nothing at all"... but the point is you don't want a weak or thin sheath that could split. You want to catch each and every drop of cum, pre-com, seamen and sperm.
To assume that your girlfriend "didn't grip you hard enough" is pointing the finger in the wrong direction. Most women do not have great gripping strength in their PC or vaginal muscles. (And even less after childbirth.) While it is true that the general tone of muscles can be improved through practice (flexing the PC or Keigle muscles regularly, like at every stop light), the amount of grip strength is not likely to be dramatic.
Instead, while enouraging your mate to stay fit, you should concentrate on your relationship. Think about your feelings, your desire, the love you share, and that all adds to the fuel that primes your pump!
Another technique is to wait longer between climaxes... that is, wait a few more days between sessions of intercourse, including masterbating to climax. It has been shown that the longer you wait between intercourse, the more excited you'll be, and the more likely you'll be to climax... grip strength or not.
Finally, there IS some variation between women's vaginal walls and strength. But before you think about changing models... consider her feelings as well. How would you feel if she said to you "Stud, you just don't measure up...I need a bigger penis...goodbye!" Not pretty.
Instead, concentrate on what drew you two together in the first place, and love, the relationship. And if it fits in your value system, consider some manual stimulation. Not every sex session has to end in intercourse, but, make certain that ALL your semen or pre-cum is caught by a condom or never has a chance to come anywhere near her vagina.
Good luck.
Oh, you'll see ads for "The thinnest condom ever" or "Like wearing nothing at all"... but the point is you don't want a weak or thin sheath that could split. You want to catch each and every drop of cum, pre-com, seamen and sperm.
To assume that your girlfriend "didn't grip you hard enough" is pointing the finger in the wrong direction. Most women do not have great gripping strength in their PC or vaginal muscles. (And even less after childbirth.) While it is true that the general tone of muscles can be improved through practice (flexing the PC or Keigle muscles regularly, like at every stop light), the amount of grip strength is not likely to be dramatic.
Instead, while enouraging your mate to stay fit, you should concentrate on your relationship. Think about your feelings, your desire, the love you share, and that all adds to the fuel that primes your pump!
Another technique is to wait longer between climaxes... that is, wait a few more days between sessions of intercourse, including masterbating to climax. It has been shown that the longer you wait between intercourse, the more excited you'll be, and the more likely you'll be to climax... grip strength or not.
Finally, there IS some variation between women's vaginal walls and strength. But before you think about changing models... consider her feelings as well. How would you feel if she said to you "Stud, you just don't measure up...I need a bigger penis...goodbye!" Not pretty.
Instead, concentrate on what drew you two together in the first place, and love, the relationship. And if it fits in your value system, consider some manual stimulation. Not every sex session has to end in intercourse, but, make certain that ALL your semen or pre-cum is caught by a condom or never has a chance to come anywhere near her vagina.
Good luck.
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You are not attracted to her, she will never tell you that, also there is vaginal memory, if she had strong pleasure with big and thick penis that could be also reason, its not definitely condom.
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Vaginal contractions are generally an involuntary muscular response to sexual stimulation, including sexual arousal, and are commonly most intense during sexual stimulation and culminating in orgasm.
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