Hi. I'm 15 years old, and have been masturbating for a little over a year now. When I first started, I had an orgasm eveytime without knowing what it was. Than I stopped for a couple of months because I felt wrong for doing it. When I started doing it again, trying to reach an orgasm, I never could. I used my old electric toothbrush when I first started, but than it wouldn't work for me. Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't feel anything if I finger myself, am I doing it wrong? Thanks soo much!!!1
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Most women like to caress the clitoris. You can make a circular motion with one or two fingers on top of your clitoris, roll your clitoris between your thumb and forefinger or tab your clitoris with your index finger. Some girls like to stimulate their clitoris with a vibrator. Try different things and vary speed and pressure to discover what works best.
If the clitoris is too sensitive you can stimulate it indirectly by touching the skin around it.
Let your whole body take part: clench and relax your sex muscles, move your pelvis up and down, open or close your legs and use your other hand to caress others parts of your body. Try out different things to discover what feels good.
Make sure you are in a sexual mood when you start, thus increasing the effect of your stimulation.
Most girls lie on their back. But you can also masturbate lying on your stomach or your side or sitting or standing. Discover what you like best.
Some like to have their legs wide apart, while others need them very close together to increase the pressure in the pelvic area.
Instead of stimulating your clitoris with your fingers you can also try a vibrator or do it in the shower or bathtub, using the water to stimulate your clitoris.
Some girls don’t caress the clitoris, but rub their vulva against something, like the mattress or a pillow or old teddy bear clasped between their legs.
Some girls like to use their fingers of one hand to stimulate their clitoris, while thrusting one or two fingers of the other hand in their vagina. You can also use a dildo to thrust. The combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulation can add to the excitement.
Some get excited by stimulating their G-spot. There are dildo’s with a curve, especially made for this purpose.
Some girls climax easily. But many have to experiment a lot before they discover how to orgasm. You may get easily excited but have difficulty getting round the top of the hill. Some things to try:
Take your time. Some girls climax after a few minutes, but for others it can take more than 20 minutes. Don’t rush yourself.
When you are very excited don’t change the rhythm or kind of stimulation. When you change the way you caress yourself your excitement drops a little and you descend a few steps on the ladder.
When you are ready to climax you have to concentrate. One way to do this is by fantasizing or you can focus on the feeling between your legs.
Fake an orgasm when you masturbate. If you act as if you are coming, it’s easier to let go, making it easier to really climax. Your play becomes reality.
Keep stimulating yourself when your orgasm starts. This makes the experience more intense.
For girls who have difficulty climaxing a vibrator can be of great help. Try it to see if it helps you.
You don’t get excited by pushing the right button. What counts is what happens in your head. If sex fills your thoughts you will notice this in your body. There are even women who can climax by using only fantasy. So make sure you are turned on in your mind when you masturbate. How to do this?
When you caress yourself you can close your eyes and pretend it’s the hand of a good looking guy or girl.
You can read an erotic story before you start masturbating or while you are stroking yourself.
You can look at erotic pictures.
You can think back of a exciting experience you had or of an exciting movie you have seen.
When you fantasize, as if you are looking at a movie, you should put yourself in the position of the 'actor(s)' and try to feel their excitement. The more you are able to connect with the sexual feelings of the 'actors' in your fantasy the more excited you will become by fantasizing.
Inside the vagina there are not many nerve endings. It’s far less sensitive than your inner lips or the clitoris. That’s why most women cannot climax by having intercourse and why most women don’t masturbate by thrusting fingers in their vagina. Most girls who want to get excited stimulate the clitoris and/or the area around it. Some like to combine vaginal and clitoral stimulation. When you try some others techniques to stimulate yourself you’ll probably get excited.
If the clitoris is too sensitive you can stimulate it indirectly by touching the skin around it.
Let your whole body take part: clench and relax your sex muscles, move your pelvis up and down, open or close your legs and use your other hand to caress others parts of your body. Try out different things to discover what feels good.
Make sure you are in a sexual mood when you start, thus increasing the effect of your stimulation.
Most girls lie on their back. But you can also masturbate lying on your stomach or your side or sitting or standing. Discover what you like best.
Some like to have their legs wide apart, while others need them very close together to increase the pressure in the pelvic area.
Instead of stimulating your clitoris with your fingers you can also try a vibrator or do it in the shower or bathtub, using the water to stimulate your clitoris.
Some girls don’t caress the clitoris, but rub their vulva against something, like the mattress or a pillow or old teddy bear clasped between their legs.
Some girls like to use their fingers of one hand to stimulate their clitoris, while thrusting one or two fingers of the other hand in their vagina. You can also use a dildo to thrust. The combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulation can add to the excitement.
Some get excited by stimulating their G-spot. There are dildo’s with a curve, especially made for this purpose.
Some girls climax easily. But many have to experiment a lot before they discover how to orgasm. You may get easily excited but have difficulty getting round the top of the hill. Some things to try:
Take your time. Some girls climax after a few minutes, but for others it can take more than 20 minutes. Don’t rush yourself.
When you are very excited don’t change the rhythm or kind of stimulation. When you change the way you caress yourself your excitement drops a little and you descend a few steps on the ladder.
When you are ready to climax you have to concentrate. One way to do this is by fantasizing or you can focus on the feeling between your legs.
Fake an orgasm when you masturbate. If you act as if you are coming, it’s easier to let go, making it easier to really climax. Your play becomes reality.
Keep stimulating yourself when your orgasm starts. This makes the experience more intense.
For girls who have difficulty climaxing a vibrator can be of great help. Try it to see if it helps you.
You don’t get excited by pushing the right button. What counts is what happens in your head. If sex fills your thoughts you will notice this in your body. There are even women who can climax by using only fantasy. So make sure you are turned on in your mind when you masturbate. How to do this?
When you caress yourself you can close your eyes and pretend it’s the hand of a good looking guy or girl.
You can read an erotic story before you start masturbating or while you are stroking yourself.
You can look at erotic pictures.
You can think back of a exciting experience you had or of an exciting movie you have seen.
When you fantasize, as if you are looking at a movie, you should put yourself in the position of the 'actor(s)' and try to feel their excitement. The more you are able to connect with the sexual feelings of the 'actors' in your fantasy the more excited you will become by fantasizing.
Inside the vagina there are not many nerve endings. It’s far less sensitive than your inner lips or the clitoris. That’s why most women cannot climax by having intercourse and why most women don’t masturbate by thrusting fingers in their vagina. Most girls who want to get excited stimulate the clitoris and/or the area around it. Some like to combine vaginal and clitoral stimulation. When you try some others techniques to stimulate yourself you’ll probably get excited.
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im the same pearson as above^ also where do i put the vibrator? & how do i make the orgasm last longer??
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The vibrator is best placed on the clit in most cases. The orgasm will last depending on alot of things. Depending on what your thinking about, how long you have been going before the climax. All sorts of things are needed to be taken into account. For some reason I find that mine feels alot better when talking to someone as i do it. This may not be your thing. Everyone has there own things they like and dont like. Just try to keep your vib near or on the clit area and add slight movement. It should help
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