I am 33, Materbating since I was 13. Left after marriage 2 year before. Penis shape became thin in the middle and thick at start and tip end. I have a child my wife is not satisfied. It takes less than 1 minute in ejaculation and then it does not erect for one or two days. I have very much tension. Sometime it only work when i take a tablet for sex. Me and my wife both are worrying. I have never discuessed the matter in any forum and with any doctor. Now i am at a point where i have an hate for sex and verge of killing myself becuase it seem my man power is going to finish. I try to live away from beautiful girls and wife so that i may prepare myself for next satisfactory sexual drive with my wife. But if i stop one week then i get an ejaculation time of only 1 minute. Please help me. I will kill myself.
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Hey Dawg!
Thank God atleast even with your premature ejaculation problem, you have a child! I read one post from someone,who had been suffering from PE and in her 5 years of marriage, they couldnt get any kid, coz he used to ejaculate less than 5 seconds after he enters his wife's vagima. Plus. semen used to come out pretty slow during ejaculation, unlike how it usually shoots out fast, like a bullet from a gun....So thank God you do have a SON!
Now to your problem,...As far as i know, your penis thinned in the middle, in your masturbation technique, you used to hold the penis right in the middle, and squeeze it while stroking it up and down..other people hold it at the tip, or base, and hence their penis will tend to have different thinning levels...Although 33yrs is quite a long time since u started, you can still get your penis health back to shape, since from reading your post, i know your wife has been very supporting with your situation..Hey, dont kill yaself over an issue like masturbation. Remember there''re people out there who have incurable grave diseases, and all they ask for is just one more day, to stay alive!!Also, catholic priests are celibate, and they still lead a normal life (excluding those weird ones who have been riding on little boys)...lol
So the best shot i can give you right now, is start exercising your PC muscles quite often, e.g while peeing, try and hold your pee for an interval of 5 seconds then start again, do this quite often, as it will help with strengthening your PC muscles too...Also,a quicker way that worked out for me, (atleast to have your wife enjoy sex for once) was..Find a desirable position for sex with your wife, then before you insert your penis into her vagina, hold the base of your penis (not the tip) with your thumb and finger, and apply some pressure on it..This will inturn reduce the sensitivity on the tip of your penis, and will tend to keep blood in the penile vessels for a while..You'll fined that this will increase your lasting time to tw or more minutes.And the more you do this technique, you'll come to find that your body and mind will start getting used to the warm vaginal enviroment and the sensitivity will reduce, making you last alittle longer...
then, the other exercise which will help you to be in control, is " i call it reverse masturbation"..This one sounds kinda weird, but i saw this on a nedical DVD which i have..This involves your wife masturbating you...It's noted that when you masturbate yourself, you tend to use all the energy in your body and mind, to create a sexual atmosphere that depletes the important hormones in your body really fast. But when your wife is masturbating you, you tend to calm down, and its only your mind that is at work..Also, by her doing it, your body will get more used to being handlesd by her,. Initially, you'll notice that you will come in a short time, but as days go by, you'll notice that your lasting longer before ejaculating, once ur wife is masturbating you...'Then here is the trick..As she is doing it, when you are about to come,let her know, and she is supposed to squeeze the tip of your penis firmly, and this will calm down your urge to ejaculate...she should repeat this anumber of times e.g 4 times, and then let u ejaculate the fifth time..This can be practised everyday, until you feel that your strength has greatly improved...From here, you can go to the real act, where you enter your wife fully, and when you feel like you are about to come, withdraw and squeeze the tip of your penis firmly until the urge slows down, and then continue...This technique done over a period of 2 months will also greatly imcrease your power from a 1 minute to 5 or more, because u will have mastered more mind and body control...
Hey, i can write a whole novel here too, but i think i'll stop for now...
Let me know if this info was helpful or not..Thanks..
By the way, there're some herbal products online, that help the penis regain its strength that was lost due to yearsof masturbation..I'm not certain whether it works 100%, but from the reviews that i've heard from users, they have a very positive result....But for now, keep exercising..Oh,not to forget also, one thing that i found that worked out for me was a product caleed ENZOY. its a vitality drink but in sachets. Once u drink one sachet after diluting with water, it helps you maintain an erection for quite a long time. You wil find that even after you have prematurely ejaculated within the first minute of entry into the vagina, your penis will still be hard and you can keep making love to your wife, until you go limp around the third time or so..But this is just a quick resort..The best cure is the exercising of the PC muslces and with the aid of your wife...
Talk 2 ya soon..
Word Up!
Thank God atleast even with your premature ejaculation problem, you have a child! I read one post from someone,who had been suffering from PE and in her 5 years of marriage, they couldnt get any kid, coz he used to ejaculate less than 5 seconds after he enters his wife's vagima. Plus. semen used to come out pretty slow during ejaculation, unlike how it usually shoots out fast, like a bullet from a gun....So thank God you do have a SON!
Now to your problem,...As far as i know, your penis thinned in the middle, in your masturbation technique, you used to hold the penis right in the middle, and squeeze it while stroking it up and down..other people hold it at the tip, or base, and hence their penis will tend to have different thinning levels...Although 33yrs is quite a long time since u started, you can still get your penis health back to shape, since from reading your post, i know your wife has been very supporting with your situation..Hey, dont kill yaself over an issue like masturbation. Remember there''re people out there who have incurable grave diseases, and all they ask for is just one more day, to stay alive!!Also, catholic priests are celibate, and they still lead a normal life (excluding those weird ones who have been riding on little boys)...lol
So the best shot i can give you right now, is start exercising your PC muscles quite often, e.g while peeing, try and hold your pee for an interval of 5 seconds then start again, do this quite often, as it will help with strengthening your PC muscles too...Also,a quicker way that worked out for me, (atleast to have your wife enjoy sex for once) was..Find a desirable position for sex with your wife, then before you insert your penis into her vagina, hold the base of your penis (not the tip) with your thumb and finger, and apply some pressure on it..This will inturn reduce the sensitivity on the tip of your penis, and will tend to keep blood in the penile vessels for a while..You'll fined that this will increase your lasting time to tw or more minutes.And the more you do this technique, you'll come to find that your body and mind will start getting used to the warm vaginal enviroment and the sensitivity will reduce, making you last alittle longer...
then, the other exercise which will help you to be in control, is " i call it reverse masturbation"..This one sounds kinda weird, but i saw this on a nedical DVD which i have..This involves your wife masturbating you...It's noted that when you masturbate yourself, you tend to use all the energy in your body and mind, to create a sexual atmosphere that depletes the important hormones in your body really fast. But when your wife is masturbating you, you tend to calm down, and its only your mind that is at work..Also, by her doing it, your body will get more used to being handlesd by her,. Initially, you'll notice that you will come in a short time, but as days go by, you'll notice that your lasting longer before ejaculating, once ur wife is masturbating you...'Then here is the trick..As she is doing it, when you are about to come,let her know, and she is supposed to squeeze the tip of your penis firmly, and this will calm down your urge to ejaculate...she should repeat this anumber of times e.g 4 times, and then let u ejaculate the fifth time..This can be practised everyday, until you feel that your strength has greatly improved...From here, you can go to the real act, where you enter your wife fully, and when you feel like you are about to come, withdraw and squeeze the tip of your penis firmly until the urge slows down, and then continue...This technique done over a period of 2 months will also greatly imcrease your power from a 1 minute to 5 or more, because u will have mastered more mind and body control...
Hey, i can write a whole novel here too, but i think i'll stop for now...
Let me know if this info was helpful or not..Thanks..
By the way, there're some herbal products online, that help the penis regain its strength that was lost due to yearsof masturbation..I'm not certain whether it works 100%, but from the reviews that i've heard from users, they have a very positive result....But for now, keep exercising..Oh,not to forget also, one thing that i found that worked out for me was a product caleed ENZOY. its a vitality drink but in sachets. Once u drink one sachet after diluting with water, it helps you maintain an erection for quite a long time. You wil find that even after you have prematurely ejaculated within the first minute of entry into the vagina, your penis will still be hard and you can keep making love to your wife, until you go limp around the third time or so..But this is just a quick resort..The best cure is the exercising of the PC muslces and with the aid of your wife...
Talk 2 ya soon..
Word Up!
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I advice you to see your doctor or visit the urologist who can help you to fix the problem.Other you need to discuss with your partner about yours sex relaction.
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