I can't cum during sex

Are you able to climax when you masturbate?

I can't ether and I can't when I masterbate ether

It's not uncommon a large percentage of women can only reach climax with clitoral stimulation, there is nothing wrong with any of you believe me the movies and books make it seem everyone but you is at it, truth there is a higher percentage of women that don't climax through intercourse! I'd invest in something called the bullet from Anne summers as it has many settings now it's not for internal use hold it gently against your clitorus and it gently gets you to climax it may worry you at first giving you the feeling you may feel like you are going to pee make sure you pee about 5mins before and I like to use it in the shower so I don't worry about clean up - like men and unlike they show in movies clean up will be required! The fluid that comes out is not as milky as sperm it's more clear and like pee feels like it comes from same place as your pee but it's different you'll know when it happens, just relax and don't worry is the key. You may want to encourage more foreplay before sex also as women usually take a lot longer to get warned up it could be your partner just keeps beating you to the finish line?

Hi Morgan20
I might be wrong with my theory but what i think is your subconsciously scared to let yourself go to full orgasm in front me your boyfriend so you hold back and make him stop.
I knew a girl that was like it if she masturbated her self by either rubbing her clit or gspot vibrator she could orgasm and squirt if her boyfriend tried either manual stimulation or with vibrator or even intercourse she wouldn't let her self go all the way and would stop him until the feeling passed.
Hope this is of use hun :-)