When I was young, I experienced this also.
I think it's because it over-stimulates the muscle, fatiguing them, and making them more likely to quiver or fire.
It could also be that it heightens the tension in the entire region.
It's not bad to increase muscle tone in the region, as it will give you much been control over your sexual response and abilities when it comes to pleasing yourself and someone else during sex in the future.
So, no, there's nothing wrong with doing this... and possibly benefits down the road!
Good luck!
I think it's because it over-stimulates the muscle, fatiguing them, and making them more likely to quiver or fire.
It could also be that it heightens the tension in the entire region.
It's not bad to increase muscle tone in the region, as it will give you much been control over your sexual response and abilities when it comes to pleasing yourself and someone else during sex in the future.
So, no, there's nothing wrong with doing this... and possibly benefits down the road!
Good luck!
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Ya I do this too, but I do it consciously.
It builds up the muscle and eventually leads to the ability to hold back your cum. Though I would never use this as a preventive measure during sex, it gives the ability for multiple orgasms.
It builds up the muscle and eventually leads to the ability to hold back your cum. Though I would never use this as a preventive measure during sex, it gives the ability for multiple orgasms.
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I'm intrigued, wonderinguy...
How does this work?
and, may I ask how old you are?
Gives the ability for multiple orgasms by "holding back your cum"?
How does flexing and holding your PC muscles do that? :?
I find that as orgasm becomes inevitible, those muscles relax and then start spasming with the climax. Or perhaps I'm confusing the sensation of contracting the PC muscles with the seminal vessels dumping and the prostate starting to pump.
Tell us more, please.
How does this work?
and, may I ask how old you are?
Gives the ability for multiple orgasms by "holding back your cum"?
How does flexing and holding your PC muscles do that? :?
I find that as orgasm becomes inevitible, those muscles relax and then start spasming with the climax. Or perhaps I'm confusing the sensation of contracting the PC muscles with the seminal vessels dumping and the prostate starting to pump.
Tell us more, please.
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Ya I'm 16
Basically I was surfing the web one day and I stumbled upon this method of training yourself to hold back your cum so that when you orgasm you stay hard and are able to orgasm again. What I do to "train" is right when I'm about to cum, I clench my muscles as much as possible and as hard as possible. For the first couple of months all that happened was that the orgasm was better (of course not a problem), but eventually I started to cum less, and of course now, if I choose, I don't cum at all the first time. The second time I'm usually too tired to hold it in again.
At first it seemed impossible to me as well, but as time went on, I found that I could, in fact, hold back my cum.
Honestly, I have no idea how it works, I just know it does :-D
Basically I was surfing the web one day and I stumbled upon this method of training yourself to hold back your cum so that when you orgasm you stay hard and are able to orgasm again. What I do to "train" is right when I'm about to cum, I clench my muscles as much as possible and as hard as possible. For the first couple of months all that happened was that the orgasm was better (of course not a problem), but eventually I started to cum less, and of course now, if I choose, I don't cum at all the first time. The second time I'm usually too tired to hold it in again.
At first it seemed impossible to me as well, but as time went on, I found that I could, in fact, hold back my cum.
Honestly, I have no idea how it works, I just know it does :-D
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How interesting!
I've never heard of this before.
Do you know if it works during intercourse?
And do you have the source website so I or others can go check it out?
Thanks for sharing! :-)
I've never heard of this before.
Do you know if it works during intercourse?
And do you have the source website so I or others can go check it out?
Thanks for sharing! :-)
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Sorry I don't have the website it was a while ago
And I have no idea if this works during sex as I've never tried it during sex (if only I could tell girls straight up that I can stay hard for a long time :-D)
And I have no idea if this works during sex as I've never tried it during sex (if only I could tell girls straight up that I can stay hard for a long time :-D)
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This definitely does work, but not quite as advertised.
If you can tighten your muscles at just the right moment it actually prevents the muscle spasms, which prevents ejaculation. Unfortunately, it also prevents the full process of the orgasm as well, so it doesn't really feel all that great. :-)
But, once you do get to the full orgasm it is REALLY intense. I have to admit that I've never been able, or for that matter *motivated*, to try this during sex. It takes me long enough to orgasm during sex that prolonging it anymore would just make me run out of breath and stop altogether. :-) But I don't see why it couldn't work.
If you want to try it just try your best to "hold it in" just when you reach orgasm and stop stimulating yourself. It should just take a second or two and you'll realize it was a "false-alarm". (Even though it wasn't.) Once you can do it, do it two or three times before the orgasm, and then be prepared to be weak in the knees for the next few minutes... :-) (Yes, I'm a big fan of doing it. :-) )
If you can tighten your muscles at just the right moment it actually prevents the muscle spasms, which prevents ejaculation. Unfortunately, it also prevents the full process of the orgasm as well, so it doesn't really feel all that great. :-)
But, once you do get to the full orgasm it is REALLY intense. I have to admit that I've never been able, or for that matter *motivated*, to try this during sex. It takes me long enough to orgasm during sex that prolonging it anymore would just make me run out of breath and stop altogether. :-) But I don't see why it couldn't work.
If you want to try it just try your best to "hold it in" just when you reach orgasm and stop stimulating yourself. It should just take a second or two and you'll realize it was a "false-alarm". (Even though it wasn't.) Once you can do it, do it two or three times before the orgasm, and then be prepared to be weak in the knees for the next few minutes... :-) (Yes, I'm a big fan of doing it. :-) )
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I'm aware of the practice of edging, working upto a climax but not plunging over that rim of inevitability, but I can't imagine being involved in thrusting intercourse and being able to stop and keep from cuming.
Heck, anytime I'm in intercourse and try to stop, just feeling my woman rubbing herself, or moving at all will keep leading me over the edge to an orgasm. So, unless I really stop in time, or withdraw, that suddent increase in sensitivity will lead to an explosive climax.
I just can't imagine how to clench and keep from coming when I'm at that point.
I'll have to try your idea sometime when convenient and not drive my partner crazy! XD
Heck, anytime I'm in intercourse and try to stop, just feeling my woman rubbing herself, or moving at all will keep leading me over the edge to an orgasm. So, unless I really stop in time, or withdraw, that suddent increase in sensitivity will lead to an explosive climax.
I just can't imagine how to clench and keep from coming when I'm at that point.
I'll have to try your idea sometime when convenient and not drive my partner crazy! XD
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Yeah, as I said, I've never tried it during actual intercourse, nor would I really want to. I'm typically having too much fun at the time. :-) (Not to mention getting exhausted!)
But practicing it during masturbation is quite nice. Hadn't heard the term edging before, though it does sound about right. Sometimes you can actually stop after ejaculate has started coming out, but prior to a full orgasm, and then still have a full orgasm later. Quite intense. :-)
But practicing it during masturbation is quite nice. Hadn't heard the term edging before, though it does sound about right. Sometimes you can actually stop after ejaculate has started coming out, but prior to a full orgasm, and then still have a full orgasm later. Quite intense. :-)
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Yeah, and sometimes, if you stop after orgasm has started, it hurts like a stalled engine that wants to continue. The ache is in the prostate, deep in the groin. I try to avoid stalling like that. Once the process of ejaculation has started, I try to keep going until completed. Stopping can be frustrating for all involved. ;-)
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i no what u guys are sayin. i can reach climax and then tighten my PC muscle up and stop from ejaculating. i can do this multiple times. idk how it would work in intercourse tho lol
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Yeah, its definately a good idea in sex. It tenses up your penis, gives you a bit of control etc, and holds your orgasm back for longer. All of which is good for her (or him)
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Can I just say, I know this is an old post but I'm 13 and new to mastubation, I have not hit puberty(fully) and when ever I'm about to climax and ejaculate my penis tenses up and it hurts to masturbate onward so I have to stop after this happens, any ideas why?
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i clench also when i masturbate i want to keep the session lasting longer but when i do clench a little bit from stroking to much and being on the verge of orgasm it seems to ruin the orgasm when i finally want to idjaculate i find hardly any fluid comes out compared from when i do it properly without clenching
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I'm 13 and this does not happen to me..
I have not fully gone through puberty either yet. I just get hard, put on some lotion that I use as lube (so resourceful, lol) and start jerking. Maybe the tense you're talking about is your orgasm.. I'm not a doctor so I don't know. After you orgasm thou, if you keep masturbating results vary by person... For me it just feels like nothing.
I have not fully gone through puberty either yet. I just get hard, put on some lotion that I use as lube (so resourceful, lol) and start jerking. Maybe the tense you're talking about is your orgasm.. I'm not a doctor so I don't know. After you orgasm thou, if you keep masturbating results vary by person... For me it just feels like nothing.
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