erection on nude beach, do I need to move beaches?

It will get better the more you do it, in two ways. It will happen less as you become accustomed to seeing others who are nude and being erect will bother you less. The only way to become comfortable is to just do it. I have a difficult time imagining a nude beach where erections are not accepted as normal as you say the first one was.

Being neither female nor gay I don't know if my opinion counts but I would think seeing a guy with an erection would be much better than seeing a little wrinkly one.

Thanks. My friend says erections are a delicate thing on "family" nudist beaches. Not that there were no families in the village, quite the contrary, but I feel too that the whole atmosphere is different from the first beach, where it's only clothing optional, with a restaurant on the beach and so on. In the village nudity is mandatory in order to keep voyeurs far off and it' really relaxed. Anyway. So far I have not become accustomed to it yet, if you're right and one becomes accustomed to being nude and seeing nude people. It still feels weird doing everyday things nude, like buying stuff in a supermarket or having an icecream. We have sex every morning so this allows me to start the day in a more relaxed way and 2 days ago I undressed on the beach and my penis stayed soft for half an hour or so but then it got semi-hard for some time went back to soft and 5 minutes later I had a full erection. That day I had 14 erections lasting from 5-15 minutes and in between my penis stayed mostly semi-hard. My friend says I pay to much attention to it, counting the erections and all that, it's as if I was waiting for them to happen she says. So yesterday I tried to focus on other things, but I got an erection the moment I undressed and I feel I was hard most of the time. She tried to make me comfortable by going into the village, go into shops, eat in a restaurant, but it only made my awareness of being nude worse and with that also my erections. Yesterday we met the same group of adolescents and again one was erect and we also saw a few other boys with an erection. But 2 days ago we saw no other adult and yesterday only 3, one in the supermarket queuing just before us, when I was also hard, and the other 2 in the streets. So it remains an exception for the others and I still don't know how to adapt myself. Still 4 days to go.

Erections are natural. If you are not a naturist, but you are giving it a try, your friend who is a naturist should already understand that nude is natural, and so are erections. Sometimes it is the tickle of the wind. I am a naturist. I am male. I met a guy through a naturist friend. I went to his place for supper, and while cooking, he went from limp to semi-hardon and back and forth. It's how his system works. We are all human and there is nothing to be ashamed of. ... Now if you have raging erection and you are masterbating on the beach in front of families.... that is another story. However erections are something all men get. It is true that the more you experience being naked with others and in public areas like the beach.... the erections will lessen.

You lived the story of my summer this year. My gf took me to a naturist resort where she used to go as a child with her parents. She hadn't gone for years either but she adapted right away back into it whereas it felt awkward for me. I tried to adapt, I even wondered if I should shave my pubes since most other men had and my friend has very little hair but she told me I should just stay natural. But my biggest problem were the erections. Even for my friend and other women I can't understand how they can bring themselves to show their nipples when they're hard or their lips when they show but a hard penis is worse than everything and the process of getting hard in public is even more shameful to me than having an erection. I felt very insecure about it and as you I got hard the moment I left my clothes, I went into the water to masturbate and this calmed it for a couple of hours but then precisely when we left the beach to go to the resort it came back. I wanted to hide but she told me to let it be and had me notice other men with an erection but I only saw that there were not that many with the exception of a few adolescents we only saw 2, plus a few other ones with visibily swollen penises but not standing. So we went to our appartment and had sex before lunch but again the effect wore off and in the course of the afternoon I got another erection in a shop, I felt it coming when we entered but my penis stayed down for a while and was hopeful but then precisely when we were queuing and everybody could observe me I got hard. By the end of the day I wanted to go home but my friend insisted and we stayed the full week. I didn't get used to it but what I did was learn to care less.I stopped masturbation and we had sex only in the evening and I accepted to start the day with my morning wood. As a matter of fact nobody ever said something to me about it and maybe I was also a comfort to the other men who went hard. I even learned to see the beauty of it, for one evening in a restaurant there came in two couples and both men were half erect and when they left they were still the same as if it was their natural state. But all in all I was an exception and for the other men we noticed that it was often the same being hard. So true enough every day we met a few men with an erection, we counted up to 9 one day but I believe there were only a dozen different men altogether who went hard. There were of course moments where I too was only half hard or even less than that and that was even the majority of time we spent there but I felt I was never completely soft and I had up to 11 erections a day (I coutned them too of course) lasting up to half an hour or even longer constantly varying from fully erect to softer states but where my pensi would still stand at least horzontally/ My friend was surprisingly at ease with it but as I said she hid nothing on herself either. I on the other hand was always afraid when I was back to more or less soft that I would get hard in front of other people.

In general there's a large tolerance towards erections in a naturist resort or on a naturist beach. However you may feel embarrassed. I used to go there with my parents but I stayed dressed during puberty and even in the first years after, then I stopped accompanying my parents. I resumed the naturist practice when I was 25 with a friend. My penis was semi-hard a lot of the time and fully erect in the morning of course and a 2 or 3 times more during the day but these periods lasted for a long time, at least half an hour each time and up to 2 hours, alternating slight decreases and increases. My friend was less subject to it but he couldn't help getting the odd erection too. We saw other men with erections but not that many. It didn't prevent us from making contact with other people and also girls (once they understood that we were not gay), but it felt still awkward. I went back for the last 2 years, also with my girlfriend, and it always did the same to me. She had never gone before but she got into it surprisingly well.

"Guest" keeps posting here instead of Penthouse Forum. A nude beach is a social environment just like restricted beaches (where they force you to wear something) or shops or restaurants. People are social animals and behave the same way in nudist resorts and beaches as they do in other social environments.

So if you don't make it awkward it won't be awkward.

Hey,

To be honest with you, you are very lucky to go to a nudist beach with lots of nude ppl. I have never been to one, but I would love to go sometime soon. If I were u, I would just let it all hang out like the others and like your friend. I like seeing nude people and dont have many problems with erections. In fact, I love masturbating and would do so at the beach. I'm fine with people seeing my body, even the parts that stick out. Even when girls come along, I would care or cover up. I think that mindset will help you feel free. If I may ask you this question, did you get an erection from your friend or from seeing other nudists? I usually get erections from seeing naked people and from thinking about girls.

Ok, this does happen on occasion. Don't worry and the more you experience naturism you will be ok. Many years ago I was taken by my aunts/uncles and cousin to a nude beach in Northern Germany. I thought we were going to just a beach by the Baltic Seas. I was surprised when my female cousin five years older then me undressed right in front of me. I felt embarrassed and she told me that ton't be. Let yourself be free, enjoy just being outside. Then she asked me if I got erections when I was  just walking around clothed. I answered yes. So don't worry. It will come and go.  Then I realized that I had seen enough nudity on TV and in the press in Europe and it did not bother me, plus I had seen other family members naked before. Within 20 minutes I felt relaxed and we went on our way at the beach and then played volleyball with about 12 people.

I HAVE BEEN TO A FEW NUDE BEACHES ALWAYS THERE IS A CERTAIN AREA ON THEM WHERE COUPLES AND GAYS LIKE TO SHOW OFF WOMAN GIVING ORAL MEN HAVING SEX BONERS AND YOU SEE IT ALL I HAVE SHOWN HARD MANY TIMES SITTING DOWN AND WOMEN ALWAYS SEEM TO WALK BY AND CHECK OUT YOUR HARDON

I always get erect and my wife just tells me not to worry. She can plainly see that I definitely have the smallest penis but she says that small and hairless is ok and don't worry about people looking at it or saying things like ohhhhh that's so cute. So I try not to.

To be honest it’s quite natural to become erect on a nude beach but best to be discreet depending who is around . Most people won’t even notice or care but walking around with an erection might not be the best thing to do as may make some people feel uncomfortable. I often get erections on naturist beaches and don’t worry to much if mainly adults around - men or women - but am cautious if families or younger adults about . You could also try having sex or masturbating before you go so you might not be so aroused at the sight of so many male and female genitals

This is "a hard one" (pun intended)!
I've been to nude beaches and resorts( for nude races). I enjoy nudity but would not call myself a nudist per se.
I also am an occassional artist model.
And both situations , in my experience, are not as " open" as implied to erections.. I have experienced a couple but you have to be careful. Nudists don't, in my experience , view a hard penis as ok. Maybe if you were on a recliner and fell asleep they would ignore one
But I d ont think just walking around with a full erection would be viewed as " ok".
Same as modeling for artists. Its not viewed as ok.i have experienced a couple, of semis, but has to quickly use my mental ability to stop them. Only once did a male ( straight too)artist acknowledge it and encourage me to keep it .

Hello,
I have never been to a naturist place because i am almost sure that i will have an unwanted erections in the first days. So maybe an option for people in my situation would be to start at nudist areas where erections are accepted (not in family freindly areas) and when the erection issue will stop, to move to the other areas.

Your friend should have given you an ejaculator and that would've taken care of the problem and it is beautiful to see a penis And a boy or girl and the pleasure of their irgasms...they should not be hiddenAnd a boy or girl in the pleasure of the ejaculation it's a most beautiful thing wherether they are in a p***y or they are masturbating themselves it should be available to be seen anywhere I have seen boys and girls f*****g on the streets of Kansas City they just screwed the girl from the rear and then it's OK or boys f*****g girls at the skating rink from the rear and sometimes boys will be f**k in the boy from the real you do not see the penis in the p***y but you know you know when you say the pleasure from the boy ejaculating.....why should it be hidden?