hi i come from a very conservative family i have a half black girlfriend i have only told my mom cuz she isnt as ingnorant as rest of family she doesnt care that i date her but she doesnt want me to get married or have kids with her the rest of my family would just flip out if they knew my girlfriends mixed race isnt very noticeable she look white my mom said she doesnt want me to have kids with her cuz it hard on mixed race kids so i was wondering if u r a mixed race person was it hard growing up and if any one is in same situtation i am in how did u handle it i really care about her plz help me
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123u61
Dear Sir
Hey first I think you are just dating her? there is no plans for a wedding and kid? or at less the wedding - kids wear A COMDOM, make sure she is on birth control pills or some other form.
It is you that is dating her not your family, if your family does not approve of her, then they do not approve of you...and what ever type of family it is - both of you do not need them, harsh, yes but it is the same to her - your wife (who ever she may be) to be rejected as it is the same for you from her family - "Not good enough" it is not the race, religion or creet, it is the person you marry,and both of you change to each other to form one.
It is not as hard as it once was, Look at the President's race- A "old white man" A "Lady" & a "half black" running for the office-- your parnets - they are from the old school that their parnets taugh them what to hate and like, I hope you see that and will not "become your parnets" So take to heart who you like and love as your preferance not that of any other family member......
RT
Dear Sir
Hey first I think you are just dating her? there is no plans for a wedding and kid? or at less the wedding - kids wear A COMDOM, make sure she is on birth control pills or some other form.
It is you that is dating her not your family, if your family does not approve of her, then they do not approve of you...and what ever type of family it is - both of you do not need them, harsh, yes but it is the same to her - your wife (who ever she may be) to be rejected as it is the same for you from her family - "Not good enough" it is not the race, religion or creet, it is the person you marry,and both of you change to each other to form one.
It is not as hard as it once was, Look at the President's race- A "old white man" A "Lady" & a "half black" running for the office-- your parnets - they are from the old school that their parnets taugh them what to hate and like, I hope you see that and will not "become your parnets" So take to heart who you like and love as your preferance not that of any other family member......
RT
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