My situation is a bit different for me i fell in love with the guy i'm seeing and visited him for a week and i haven't had sex in a long time until him because i was waiting until i got to visit him and we did for like 4 days but now when i'm home and i try solo sex i'm numb even if i have a organism it's weird i'm wondering if it's because he's bigger then what i'm use to but i still feel numb after we had sex like at first i wasn't numb but then when we had sex and now when i try to have a organism on my own since he isn't here yet to live w me i just feel numb every time i try to have a organism is that normal?