I have a friend of mine whom I talk to online and she feels she's physically unable to cum. She gets really excited. From videos, to pictures, to stories. She has multiple stimuli and she feels she cannot do it. When she gets close, she says suddenly she gets to the peak, but it stops, and instead of higher and higher pleasure, she just knows it won't happen. She doesn't get the release. It's really disheartening since she's so ashamed afterwards and feels upset that she can't cum. She's done voice with me, cam, both fully clothed while doing it and naked. She knows she's beautiful, but can't get that release, and wants to know what to do. I saw a few posts on here and I figured I'd come for help, but more specific since there wasn't anything I'd seen on helping achieving orgasm.
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There are tons of women that can't or believe they can't come and being disheartened by it sure doesn't help. From what I understand it a bad self esteem issue for the female. My current girlfriend believed for years she couldn't cum and we even had sex twice and she hadn't gotten off. The third time we had sex she did and now she gets off all the time. I have read articles and talked to many people regarding this situation and I would have to say about 98% of them agree and say that a women who can't get off's best chance is to have a man or stimulate the fabled 'G' spot. I find the best way to do this during sex is to have the girl life her left or right leg up and have one down, insert yourself inside her and use your head to stimulate the upper wall inside her vagina with your penis. If this doesn't work attempt to stimulate the clitoris at the same time. I am sure this could also be done with a toy.
If this doesn't work contact me VIA mail on here and I will continue to research more and see what I can come up with.
If this doesn't work contact me VIA mail on here and I will continue to research more and see what I can come up with.
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