Almost 18 year old virgin, how do I cum / come?

If you mean cum as in shoot a liquid, girls don't do that. If you mean cum as in orgasm... it sounds like you just need more practice. Do you rub your clit? Most woman can't orgasm without clit stimulation. It sounds like you almost get there but then stop, it just takes a little more!

Most females have a hard time reaching climax because they are too tense, they do not allow themself to fully relax their body and muscles. Take your time, and don't stress as much over it. It'll happen when your ready.

floridashine wrote:

kittygurl18 wrote:

Hi, I'm almost 18 and I'm still a virgin. I've had oral once and been "fingered" a few times but that's it. I use a vibrator when I need emotional release, but I've never been able to cum (as far as I know). The feeling builds and builds, but I can never get that feeling of "release" that I so desperately need. What is it like to cum? Could something be wrong with me?

Most females have a hard time reaching climax because they are too tense, they do not allow themself to fully relax their body and muscles. Take your time, and don't panic ,if you want to come in heaven,stretchyour muscle in your knees,and focus in your delightful desires and then rub your clit , with a seriuos focus .,what had you've thinkin' of ,,,,,,,,,,.stay focus.,it will come cum.dont shy if you will cum,cause your entering heaven,go with it!with your fingers or a toys and you wouldnt' be frustrate .....NOTE...play with, in a silent .

I know as a guy I may not have the personal experience, but I do have a lot of experience in how sexual stimulation works, where the best places to touch to help you cum are, and the type of mental state you need to be in, in order to reach climax. Now like alot of people here said if you are tense, or have your mind else where your never going to reach climax. Your mind needs to be fully engaged in what your doing. If your attention is split it's never going to happen. Also someone said before the women can't ejaculate, which is not true. women can ejaculate. I know this because my girlfriend does when stimulated in a certain way. Now if you can't even orgasm, and your a virgin I wouldn't really concern yourself with that I just didn't want you having incorrect information. Another thing that may be holding you back is some sort of fear of just letting go and letting yourself have that release. Just relax, and enjoy what your doing without any reservations. Also clitoral stimulation is really your only option to reach climax. Maybe you should start off with your fingers though. One sign of your building climax, and arousal is your clit will become engorged. If you feel this with your fingers it may help you to reach orgasm. Now it might take you a long time to learn how to reach orgasm. My girlfriend could not give herself an orgasm with a few exceptions for over a year, but when having sex, or oral sex she was able to orgasm multiple times. She can now make herself orgasm, but it took her a while. Just the main thing she has always told me is that when she is getting close she has to think of that and only that, and if there is any change to what is being done to her the feeling is delayed, or even lost. Well good luck hope you learn how soon, and hope I helped.

I have the same problem. Almost 18, a vergin, never came/cum once. My sensative spots don't help me when I try to get release. My clit is the most sensative but nothing ever happens. I don't know what to do. I cannot bring myself to release.

Correction girls do do that. It's called squirting . iv seen in videos and iv also seen in personally

Girls do " shoot a liquid" its called cumming, an orgasm is a completely different thing. For a girl to cum they must stimulate their g spot and when doing so they'll orgasm and thats when your just suppose to keep going and when u feel like you have to pee it just keeps building up and then your body just releases

It is not called cumming it's called female ejaculation or squirting.