I had the same thing happen to me. I was playing around with the girl and i went to lock my door and by the time i got back and went to get a condom i was totally flaccid. It was really frustrating and now that it happened once i am worried about it, and if it will happen again. How can i calm myself down?
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Just happened to me, was hard when playing around then the condom came on and bye bye erection. I feel so pathetic :-(
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same thing happened to me. This was really depressing. What annoyed me the most is that I wasn't nervous. i know it's my first time but sh*t... it felt bad
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I can recommend a reputable pharmacy (Viagra) I received the order and it was on time and the pills work great.
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I had sex for the first time last night and for whatever reason I couldn't get it up. She tried working it for so long and we tried several positions but I just couldn't do it... I was so embarrassed. I heard it's not uncommon in younger adults like 18-21 who are having sex for the first time. There's so much pressure to perform, and even to just lose your v. that so many thoughts were racing through my head I think. I couldn't work with the condoms and I wasted 3. Really embarrassing but the worst part is she thinks it's her fault. I hope I get another chance to make her happy. I also had been drinking somewhat and it might have desensitized me a bit. Hope she's down to try again!
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man everytime im with a new girl I have this problem. I get hard and when its time to take the clothes off I go soft. Its to the point were I just start laughing because when im with this one particular girl Iam always hard just by looking at her and we have perfect sex! Its just with the new girls I have this problem. ***************************** an i would literally have to strain to get hard then once im hard I cum fast cause of all the anxiety.
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Although it can depend upon two factor. Weak erections happen in two forms- primary and secondary. Primary weak erections refers to a state where problem persists since the first time and secondary erection prevails in the situation where earlier a man used to have good erection but then he start suffering from dysfunction in erections. Primary erectile dysfunction can sometime happen due to innate physical conditions and may be non-curable.
Causes of weak erections::
The particular reasons for the problem of weak erections are still enigma among scientist but the problem is considered more as a synonym with age factor. Once a man age advances, he start loosing the strength, certain physical changes due to ageing and other factors leads to weak erection. Though rarely the problem occurs due to underlying physical conditions but it is more to do with psychological factors. Chronic Stress and tensed mind, differences in couples, distracted mind are major triggers for weak erection. By the way, if the erections get weak occasionally than it’s not the area of concern but if problem persist for more than 50% times than probably a man is suffering from Weak erection. Men with Diabetes Mellitus are at higher risk to experience the erection dysfunction.
Causes of weak erections::
The particular reasons for the problem of weak erections are still enigma among scientist but the problem is considered more as a synonym with age factor. Once a man age advances, he start loosing the strength, certain physical changes due to ageing and other factors leads to weak erection. Though rarely the problem occurs due to underlying physical conditions but it is more to do with psychological factors. Chronic Stress and tensed mind, differences in couples, distracted mind are major triggers for weak erection. By the way, if the erections get weak occasionally than it’s not the area of concern but if problem persist for more than 50% times than probably a man is suffering from Weak erection. Men with Diabetes Mellitus are at higher risk to experience the erection dysfunction.
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All this was due to Performance Anxiety.Keep your cool, enjoy the moment without thinking too much on erection.Hane lots of foreplay before getting into her.
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Thank god for this thread!
I've been having my first time a few days ago, with a man however as I'm bi.
I thought I might be too quick due to exitement at the first time so masturbated before. I've also been very nervous and despite the fact that I tossed about with the probably sexiest man in London nothing happened. I sometimes even felt a bit bored in between as I didn't feel any sexual attraction by touching him (despite, as I already mentioned, he's a dream of man), although if I think of sex the opposite happens. Now I'm scared of trying it again....
I've been having my first time a few days ago, with a man however as I'm bi.
I thought I might be too quick due to exitement at the first time so masturbated before. I've also been very nervous and despite the fact that I tossed about with the probably sexiest man in London nothing happened. I sometimes even felt a bit bored in between as I didn't feel any sexual attraction by touching him (despite, as I already mentioned, he's a dream of man), although if I think of sex the opposite happens. Now I'm scared of trying it again....
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I too must announce how lucky I am to have found this thread. I'm 18 and I've never had any sort of sexual contact before. A friend of mine came over the other day, and we started flirting a little bit. She ended up rubbing and tickling me down there, which got me very erect and for a good deal of time. She finally had me remove my pants and she continued. With my pants off now, I began to shiver a bit from nerves, and when she put my penis in her mouth, it went back to its flaccid size. She went at it for like 30 minutes, and towards the end I was kind of starting to get hard, but it wouldn't take.
Luckily, this friend was very understanding. She and I have rescheduled for next week, where she will try again. I must say, I'm a generally anxious person, but I know I will be able to conquer in a few days.
Luckily, this friend was very understanding. She and I have rescheduled for next week, where she will try again. I must say, I'm a generally anxious person, but I know I will be able to conquer in a few days.
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Seriously every guy here, you saved my life, i refuse to use stuff like viagra
its so embarrassing and i wouldnt know how to ask for it at a clinic
but now i know you guys are in a similar situation i feel confident already
and i guess next time i will be a little more stimulated ;-)
CHEERS GUYS! :-)
its so embarrassing and i wouldnt know how to ask for it at a clinic
but now i know you guys are in a similar situation i feel confident already
and i guess next time i will be a little more stimulated ;-)
CHEERS GUYS! :-)
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I was so embarrased and what was worse i actually had to ask myself if i was gay! lol
this comment made my day :')
this comment made my day :')
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so glad i found this.. i have been with a couple of girls and got nothing on all of them... i feel so embarrassed about this and its so uncomfortable to talk about.. ill be with my friends and they all start telling sex stories and i just keep quiet, lol cause i dont want to tell them MY sex experience.. i remember i just felt so nervous about everything.. would she like it, amd i big enough, will she laugh at me and tell everyone, idk... i just couldn't get nothin goin at all.. and when i finally did when it was time to get into position and put it in man i was so soft at that moment right after JUSt being almost rock hard... really embarrising and pissed me off a little too.. but i really must say i read almost alll of the responses to this and it really is a confidence booster. idk how old all of u are but dont be ashamed because i am 21 and still have this little problem... hopefully next time around ill be more confident and kno its all in my head.. well the wrong head atleast (pun intended)
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so glad i found this.. i have been with a couple of girls and got nothing on all of them... i feel so embarrassed about this and its so uncomfortable to talk about.. ill be with my friends and they all start telling sex stories and i just keep quiet, lol cause i dont want to tell them MY sex experience.. i remember i just felt so nervous about everything.. would she like it, amd i big enough, will she laugh at me and tell everyone, idk... i just couldn't get nothin goin at all.. and when i finally did when it was time to get into position and put it in man i was so soft at that moment right after JUSt being almost rock hard... really embarrising and pissed me off a little too.. but i really must say i read almost alll of the responses to this and it really is a confidence booster. idk how old all of u are but dont be ashamed because i am 21 and still have this little problem... hopefully next time around ill be more confident and kno its all in my head.. well the wrong head atleast (pun intended)
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omg im so glad this is a normal thing this happend to me the otha day i guess it was cuz i was nervous thats good
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