I know this may seem really strange but I'm 17 at the moment and I am really nervous to lose my virginity and I know this sounds odd but I would much rather loose it to not necessarily a stranger but someone I didn't know very well. That way I would feel less awkward and the person would not be able to dump me for not being good and I wouldn't know him well enough to care if he spread and rumors about me. Also I would be more prepared for sex with someone I actually cared about. I know it sounds odd but is it weird to feel like this?
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No it's not weird, I felt the same way but then I realized why would I give my virginity to someone that I would have to worry whether they would spread rumors about me or not? If you find someone who loves you and you love them you shouldn't be worried about them judging you for how "good" you are. Don't stress nobody is good when they have sex for the first time. "goodness" in bed comes from experience. My advice is to wait and find someone you love who you know won't judge you or talk about you'lls sex life to anyone because honestly its noones business but yours and his. Hope this helps!
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