me and my gf just attempted r first time having sex im a vergin but she is not.... we tried twice in one day it did something for her but kinda did nothing for me like parts felt good but it mostly hurt what is wrong with me???? help please
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It's not unusual for the first attempt at sex or intercourse to be less than perfect.
It's frequently a combination of nerves, the unexpected, and watching yourself and your response too closely.
If your girlfriend is experienced, she may already be in tune with her body and knows what feels good to her. You, on the other hand, might need some time to adjust.
Be aware that you need to be using birth control from the very start. This means either a barrier method, or on the pill, but some method that you both agree on.
If you're going to be using condoms, make sure you have it on and in place well before you start touching yourself and her genitals. This is important cause it only takes one drop to make her pregnant.
You'll want to make sure that she's very lubricated, either naturally or with some artificial lube (like KY jelly or liquid) or personal lubricant before attempting any penetration.
DON'T USE VASOLENE or ANY PETROLEUM BASED LUBE WITH A CONDOM. It quickly ages and weakens the laytex rubber and will let it fail when you need it most. And the weaking effect is immediate. You can't try it and hope that it will last a while. The weaking happens immediately, putting you and her at risk immediately and suddenly.
So, there may be nothing wrong with you, that time and experience will help. If you need more, you might try contacting Planned Parenthood or your medical clinic for advice.
Good luck.
It's frequently a combination of nerves, the unexpected, and watching yourself and your response too closely.
If your girlfriend is experienced, she may already be in tune with her body and knows what feels good to her. You, on the other hand, might need some time to adjust.
Be aware that you need to be using birth control from the very start. This means either a barrier method, or on the pill, but some method that you both agree on.
If you're going to be using condoms, make sure you have it on and in place well before you start touching yourself and her genitals. This is important cause it only takes one drop to make her pregnant.
You'll want to make sure that she's very lubricated, either naturally or with some artificial lube (like KY jelly or liquid) or personal lubricant before attempting any penetration.
DON'T USE VASOLENE or ANY PETROLEUM BASED LUBE WITH A CONDOM. It quickly ages and weakens the laytex rubber and will let it fail when you need it most. And the weaking effect is immediate. You can't try it and hope that it will last a while. The weaking happens immediately, putting you and her at risk immediately and suddenly.
So, there may be nothing wrong with you, that time and experience will help. If you need more, you might try contacting Planned Parenthood or your medical clinic for advice.
Good luck.
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the first time at having sex will suck. you will cum to quickly and your girlfriend will wonder if that is all there is.
it will get better, be patient and you and you girlfriend will get it together.
it will get better, be patient and you and you girlfriend will get it together.
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